Welcome to the Melbourne Community Daily Discussion Thread.
Ted Cat says Hi.
Still looking thin & hungry - maybe a third breakfast is called for?
He’s very small for his breed. 😔 He was starved when he was growing up.
*dabs a little human tuna in springwater in his dish as a treat *
2 breakfastses. You lucky little thing.
Hi!
Well it happened again.
About 15 yrs ago I was playing with my cat and I fell over and fucked my lower back / hip… 2 yrs ago I fell off my bike and I could feel it almost unfucked my back (counter intuitive, but it rearranged something). Then… when swimming in the ocean a few times straight after it felt like something had really changed.
Had a big stretch and there was an almighty ‘clunk’… something popped back in. It was extremely satisfying. Woke up to zero (0!) back pain. I’ve been dreaming of that ‘clunk’ ever since even though the back / hip was all good.
Anyway that ‘clunk’ happened again this morning.
Dreams do come true.
I’ve had that clunk happen!!
I was also having a “stretch” 😉
this is a satisfying story
chiropractors hate him
dr. homer’s miracle spine-o-cylinder
Might have spondylolithesis?
Jeez just had a read on that… It likely wasn’t that… that looks really bad.
Just a little message between the man and I.
Noted with thanks.
We’re very fucking professional here.
It’s Friday Fritter Day!
Corn & zucchini fritters, served with salad and mint yoghurt dressing. I made enough to feed a small army, so the freezer will be filled with many future fritters too.
I love corn fritters! And big batches are necessary, eggs don’t come in halves or quarters.
I used 3 eggs in this batch! 22 fritters in total.
I forgot to add to my other comment - powdered eggs are a thing. They are perfect for when you want to make something like fritters or pancakes in amounts smaller than one egg worth.
I know they exist but have never used them. I do have a fabulous 70s cook book called the Other Half of the Egg. It’s set up for just whites or yolks, and how many. Like ok, I baked a pav, what can I do with 6 yolks?
Lemon curd. Really rich custard. Quiche. Mayonnaise and/or bearnaise (which I like better). Will look for this tome on the interwebs.
0207954186
Thanks! I notice one of the authors is Jacques Pepin, who is one of my culinary heroes.
Oh yum. That salad look pretty delicious too!
It’s 2am, I should be sleeping, and all I can think about is how absolutely awesome it would be to drive or work on one of the super long distance trains, like the ones across the nullabor or up north. I mean, probably not that awesome for most normal people, but I love trains, love being in the middle of nowhere, and hate people. Going on a 40 hour train ride through actual nowhere is genuinely a dream
It sounds like being a train driver would be a job choice for you. Not sure if you need to be qualified to drive metro trains before you can get to do the long distance ones (given they also run in towns). But you’d probably enjoy metro trains as well - even though there are a lot of people on the trains you don’t interact with them as a driver, the only interaction is putting out the wheelchair ramp as needed. Downside is hitting the occassional person which can be stressful.
I thought about that and used to really want to (although I was leaning slightly more towards vline than metro). But train driver positions usually draw a lot of applicants, and out of those they accept almost none
Don’t count it out because of statistics. If you have the right qualities for the job one of the people they do accept could very well be you.
Obviously having other options as well is important, but I know a lot of people who have gotten those sorts of competetive jobs. It never hurts to try.
Maybe look into WA then? I’ve seen driver ads more than once - possibly not a popular choice here.
Certainly a possibility!
I’ve thought EXACTLY the same.
I’ve gone down the occasional rabbit hole of watching YouTube videos of this kind of thing, and I think there may have been a TV series a few years back following drivers and crews of different trains around the country, these Nullarbor ones included. Plus the whole Ghan slow-travel thing on SBS too.
Yeah, I was up watching videos of the really long freight trains last night until 2:30
Both my references were contact today, one missed the call and will call back Monday. Not celebrating yet, but definitely getting closer to victory!
Man I hate mornings after a big fight with my partner.
Turn Back Time plays whilst they sip their coffee…
Just used a Container Deposit Scheme machine for the first time, easy and fast to use, quite fun actually. I got $7 back and now there’s less to go in our home recycling.
Yah or nah for the lighting? Please ignore the massive mess.
It’s also not as bright in the photo. Like maybe 30% ish of that
Oo i’m a fan. Planning on actually diffuse lighting the bathroom and laundry eventually
(Convincing His Lordship we also need to home automate an intruder alert protocol that cuts all lights to deep red and starts playing the imperial march)
That will be awesome…but also scary lol!
I’m a nah. I find light like this disorienting. But given the unlikelyhood of that being relevant, carry on
hell yeah!
Looks great, and you have a fabulous view btw
The view is amazing. Check out my comment from yesterday. Gorg sky yesterday 😍
What kind of light is that? Like an LED strip?
early bird gets the worm
what does an early god get?A cuppa
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It’s the Nanoleaf LED strip plus I think a 2m extension
Is it running just along the floor and giving an illusion of going around the perimeter of the wall?
Also I really love the effect but unfortunately it really highlights the imperfections in the gyprock.
Yes exactly. Just running on the floor behind the couch. It’s subtle enough to be a night light. I’m really digging it tbh 😎
Done with work, I am ded.
Gonna eat dinner,
Then play mobile games in bed.
Work again
At 8 AM
I’d better order my coffin
Before all the sales end.Take care out there Teddy bear
Th*nksg*v*ng is the clearest reminder that the internet is American and the rest of us are just visiting.
Speaking of America, I hope the new Jamba juice place gives Boost a scare. They’ve been too comfy for too long.
Just caught the neighbours’ cat using butters’ kitty litter that is not on my fren… quite literally casually came in and took a shit… that’s not on my little fren I’m not standing for it and nor would bboi.
Oooooo. Last night’s spicy korean noodle soup and spicy dumplings hurt me this morning. Oooooo when will I ever learn.
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Yeah.
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TW Chronic pain, TMI medical issues, suicide.
Yeah, I’m pretty tough and try not to complain but this pain is debilitating. It has been for a very long time. It’s been slowly and steadily worsening to the point I’m not really able to eat anymore, am in pain everyday like my guts are eating themselves and have gone from being borderline impacted at most times to constantly having the runs for no reason. Mostly bedbound at this point and the things I can do are severely diminished. This isn’t even my main fucking disability. I am medically complex.
I’ve been seeking help for at least 15 years, closer to 20 now. I’ve taken the meds that are supposed to dull the pain. Had all the tests. I’ve done the liquid medical diets. Have admitted myself to emergency department repeatedly in the past, and have had drs/specialists be pretty rude and indifferent about it, telling me it’s psychosomatic, or dismissing me as a drug seeker. I’ve been denied more tests by the gastroenterologists despite the last ones being 6 years ago and an important one being unsuccessful. Seeking a second opinion got me charged out the nose and handballed back. I’ve also been denied a J tube that would feed me abdominally.
This is unfortunately a common experience for chronically ill/chronic pain patients. But I’m going to have another crack at the hospital merry go round on Monday and hoping that having someone to back me up helps. Unfortunately Melbcat will have to go into temporary foster care which is so hard for me. (I can’t explain to her what’s happening, tell her not to be scared or reassure her that I’m coming back. And a run of bad luck means we weren’t even able to get her to her vet appointment yet. Every single time we line one up something happens and it falls through.)
But this chronic severe pain and inability to eat is debilitating, it has been for a long time, and without being dramatic it is genuinely making me consider ending my life if it can’t be controlled. I can’t just keep doing this anymore.
I’m not expecting much though. The most likely outcome is waiting hours in the emergency department, experiencing more annoyed dismissive treatment, doing another round of tests just to find nothing, and going right back to trying to cope with and cover up the pain. Probably will have to come back here and tell you guys that nothing has been found or has changed.
I would undergo surgery if it would help but unfortunately it’s high risk for poor results.
This is the disability/chronic pain experience I’m afraid, at least as a poor/public hospital patient. You eventually go in the too hard basket and start getting blamed. I don’t know where to go to from here. There’s a lot I want to live for but it’s getting so bad that if it wasn’t for Melbcat I would already have done it.
Ps. Please don’t offer me suicide helplines. They’re actually quite terrible.
@melbaboutown @bot001 I can’t offer anything really except empathy, I’ve only just experienced extended intense pain from a herniated disc, and even after 2 weeks I was thinking, if this doesn’t get better, I don’t know how I’m going to keep going, it’s absolutely terrifying to consider years like that. I’m fortunate to seem to be one of the 90% that responds to conservative management but I’m on long term pain meds, and I’m really not sure if the injury is healing by itself or the pain is being masked by the meds.
One thing from your story though, I’ve read that an emerging treatment for a range of gastro issues is gut microbiome transplant, might be worth looking into if you haven’t already as it’s probably not going to be recommended by many gastroenterologists.
Thanks, the empathy means a lot. This is being treated like an ed or a mental problem when I do believe there is something that has been missed.
I’ll keep that in mind.
I really hope for some relief for you
I’m so sorry to hear you are having such a horrid situation. Hang in there. You can do it. Hope the hospital visit can give you some answers. But also, whilst it is true that sometimes a diagnosis cannot be found, can they work towards some kind of treatment like pain management, diet, counselling to help you manage the situation. If no diagnosis forthcoming, word up the person supporting you to help you ask about how doctors can help lessen the symptoms to improve your quality of life. Perhaps they can refer you to a pain management specialist? A physician? I very much hope you can find some relief.
Thanks. I really hope for some answers as the previous efforts have been very cookie cutter with little result.
I’ve been to pain management clinics before for different issues and left because it wasn’t suiting. (I was unable to manage the physical therapy and was afraid of the prescription painkillers - which incidentally did end up killing my cousin) but am willing to go back and try again.
Hey mate I don’t have much to offer but I’m very sorry that you’re going through this and I hope you get through this safely. My DMs are always open if you want to have a chat though :)
Share a pic of melbcat?
Thanks, fingers crossed something gets done.
Here’s one not showing anything identifying or untidy
What a cutie. I’m thinking of adopting a cat pending landlord approval. 🤞
Can you get a patient advocate in hospital? I know some states have rules about patients asking for help after being refused.
I’m sorry you’re going through this, I spent years getting diagnosed with gastroparesis after many dismissals from specialists who didn’t even do the basic test. Was also told it’s stress, anxiety, psychological etc.
Anyway peg/j tubes are fairly standard things if one can’t eat /digest properly, what is their pushback reason on those?
Chronic pain is a hard problem to solve, pain specialists are super expensive and just seemed to push infusions or other medications rather than trying to work out the source. I had no success with them tbh. Have you read “explain pain”? (Apologies if you’re already aware of this and it’s not helpful).
I haven’t read it, thanks for the suggestion.
The specialist tells me that they don’t do it because of risks. My main disability also means poor wound healing that could lead to complications, and I’m being told that it could end up being permanent.
Having read up on it I agree but I am getting desperate.
Had a chat with the housemate and she’s keen on adopting a cat!! Now to ask the REAs permish. Any tips on how to approach it?
I do know you are legally bound by the Australian Constitution as well as state and local laws to submit photographic evidence of your adorable kitty to the Melbourne DT community.
Also consider “Baby Jeebus” as a name for aforementioned kitty.
Ask forgiveness not permission. They cant legally say no. Also Neko cat rescue are amazing! check them out.
But the problem is that they might not renew our lease then no?
legally, they kind of cant these days.
Ask them how much the pet bond is. It is the most efficient way to ask permission for a pet, while also being aware that there are costs associated with it that you won’t give them hassle over.
What? Pet bond isn’t a thing.
https://www.consumer.vic.gov.au/housing/renting/repairs-alterations-safety-and-pets/pets
Huh. So they aren’t. Pet bonds are definately a thing in WA, I didn’t realise they weren’t in Victoria. That site also answers your question:
Renters who want to keep a pet should:
- complete a Pet request form. The renter must complete a separate form for each pet they want to keep.
- give the form or forms to their rental provider
- keep a copy for their own records.
The rental provider has 14 days (starting the day after they receive the form) to make a decision.
- If they agree to the renter having the pet, they should give consent in writing, using the address the renter gave on the pet request form.
- If they don’t agree, they should apply to VCAT and tell the renter they have done so within the 14 days. The renter can’t keep a pet while VCAT is making a decision.
- If the rental provider does not respond at all within the 14 days the renter can keep the pet.
