Welcome to the Melbourne Community Daily Discussion Thread.
BRB, going to Inverloch. Holiday!
bring us a bass from the bass strait please
So this is the second week I’ve had my period, and last time this kind of stuff happened I never talked to the doctor about it (medical trauma and obviously cptsd from SA) but it’s happening again… So I have to go see my GP, tho I may request a lady doctor to hopefully ease my worries.
Low-key hoping that my uterus is damaged beyond repair and has to be removed. #goals
This organ is nothing but pain and annoyance and though it’s doesn’t make much sense, whenever I think of it being removed I think of Mike Wazowski: “Put that thing back where came from, or so help me, so help me, so help me, and cut!”
Yeet the thing if you can! Wish the wretched organ came with an on/off switch. Yes, I’m sure I don’t want to use this right now, hibernate mode GO! (I got mine disconnected, but unfortunately it still works)
so many gentle hugs
You poor thing! 🫂
+1 on a woman doctor for anything uterus related. I always ask.
My lovely daughter comes home yesterday all excited because she spotted all these white butterflies around on her way home. She even took photos. She was so happy. Now as a mother it’s my job to tell her the truth. I crushed that little girl’s heart with a “no sweetie. They are cabbage moths. They’re a pest. They eat hard working Australians crops”. Not to be out done she replied with “They’re still pretty”. Bless her little cotton socks.
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Lol TIL too! I thought they were butterflies too hahaha
Weird how I have the whole cinema to myself at 10am on a school/work day 😎
I thought that was a keyboard.
7 people here with me but ticket is $10
edit: the number has tripled
1 more person came to my session lol
Go go Docklands! Sadly no $10 ticket though.
KITTENS!!
Noice!! What are you seeing?
The Marvels. I’ve managed to avoid all spoilers which is my favourite way to see movies.
Awww yeeeee it’s gonna be great especially having the cinema to yourself!
Does anyone feel like their emotions get blunted as they get older? For whatever reason I just don’t get as stressed or anxious as much about things as I used to. On the other hand I also don’t get as excited as much either. Overall I’m just much more… sedated?
I don’t know if it is emotions getting blunted or just that having had a much wider range of experiences the extremes needed to trigger strong emotions are much rarer. When you have little experience of food every meal has a high chance of being the best thing you have ever tasted by a strong margin (or the worst!). But eventually you get to the stage where you have tried so many things that the chances of any one thing being the best are slim, and if it is, it is not generally by a wide margin. I imagine that if you could recreate something as dramatically different as your first taste of sugar your emotions would be just as strong.
I believe the tendency to become less adventurous as we age is down to the same thing. The chances of a new recipe being better than the best recipe we have discovered so far gets lower and lower as we go along, until we get to the point that trying new things becomes more likely to be a negative than a positive. But doing this creates even less likelihood of having an experience that triggers strong emotions - which is why some people go to the opposite extreme of chasing adventure and looking for dramatically new experiences.
Same here, my emotions aren’t as extreme as when I was younger. Something I experienced when I was younger that would be very keenly felt is now more of a “meh” for me. However I still get angry the same, I still get cross at everything! I suffered from an anxiety disorder and had PTSD from around 2006 for about years, so everything feels less anxious compared to then lol.
Yeah but I think there’s different reasons for everybody. For me I’ve never really been a stressy person but when I had a child even less stressy because I didn’t want her to pick up on it.
I can relate to that… I think having a child really helped me too, for the same reason.
Same as you I don’t get excited much any more (late 40’s here), but I am -definitely- much grumpier now than I used to be. Nothing used to worry me back in the day, but now I’m constantly having to catch myself and shut my mouth before I grumpily complain about so many things.
It’s a trait I don’t like and do my best to suppress, but sometimes it slips through. My internal dialogue is just constant grumpiness these days and I hate it!
Is frustration an emotion? I don’t really get angry or excited that much, but holy shit do I get frustrated at little things (90% of the time it’s people doing stupid little things). The frustration leaves quickly, but it’s pretty intense when it hits.
Overall though, yeah. Way less emotional swings.
No, I am just as intense and wild as ever.
I do try my best to appear calm and i do hold my tongue
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I don’t have anything important to say but I’m becoming really good at getting wasps out of the house. Give them a little hand gesture and they know where the window is. They are more aware than we think… They know things.
One of your mates got in my car the other day. It got in. I got out. It got very close to buckling up in the backseat before I open the door and nicely asked it to “Get out”.
Come back when you have learned the way of the mosquito and you will never worry for fame or money ever again.
How are they getting in though? That’s worrying me.
Wasps are not real. They’re drones who are spying on you for big everything.
Do you also do flies?
No flies are faaar less compliant.
Bugger
incoherent noises
this week is sucking the will to live out of me. I dont know why, but it is just exhausting. Felt like we faced 2 Mondays in a row.
I told myself I was going to get some work done today (and got up at 8:30am so not bad…) But it’s not happening yet. I am frozen and somehow crave interaction to kick start my brain. I do have a few hours I have to spend in a library between appointments later today though, so that might generate some action, being away from home with my laptop.
Graffiti and vandalism annoys me so much. It makes me really really angry. Why can’t people just not fucking destroy things that benefit everyone?
I keep seeing anti-Semitic and nazi graffiti around carlton 😔 tagging is shit but at least it isn’t evil
Th garden is growing so well in this weather. 😊
- lunch notes - theme this week is power…Dam… I’m a big fan
Good good (from a pun perspective).
Nice perspective on the fans and blades, disappearing naturally into the distance
Thanks. What did you end up doing with your digital setup? (That was you right…?)
Yeah that was me, I ended up just sticking with drawing on my phone
Ok so don’t nap when you had a poor nights sleep the night before. Or set an alarm or something. 2 and a half hours GONE and I don’t love my chances of sleeping well tonight!
@[email protected] Sorry but those little white butterflies are just so cute
Try growing some veggies and I guarantee you your tune will change…
Hahaha. Well those insects are invading little dog’s yard and he don’t like it.
Cabbage moths. All through my street today. Cabbage moths
TIL the container deposit scheme won’t take crushed cans.
Which is beyond stupid. Why can’t I crush most of a six pack or case and leave one to scan the barcode? I also thought there were supposed to be vending machine type things at supermarkets. Certainly not local to me.
yeah none of the ones near me are at major transportation / foot traffic hubs
Me neither. It would make sense to have one in the carpark of First Choice Liquor imo.
Car park is my first recycling memory. Weird domes, glass only, split by colour. And no refund.
Shopping centre carpark. Cash 4 cans. My sister’s 18th. 1989. $3.30 pocket money.
meanwhile I’ve got three within walking distance - including outside a woolies
I can walk to one, but won’t want to with a bulky load of uncrushed tins. Will go head to head challenge with @[email protected] On jingly bins. Not doing that for a kilometre.
Ah tin cans. No challenge.
gotta be able to read the barcode.
Depending on where you are, there may be an app that lets you check eligibility on the fly
My local recycling joint (in WA) takes them crushed. The technology exists. Are the recyclers in Victoria privately operated like the ones here are?
The big joints that go by weight take crushed, but are not keen on domestic quantities. This new return paid by individual item scheme is actually asking us to do loads of work to get 10c back. I’ll probably be largely still using the yellow bin. My down time is worth more.
Here is our recycling machine thingy separating cans and plastic bottles. Caution: these places are loud.
That is a fun looking smashy bashy! Would wear my cancelling plugs and attempt.
The kids love doing this. I’ve trimmed them out of the video, but the full video shows them jumping with exitement. They come away with about $20ea from these excursions.
I expect that it needs to read a barcode or some other ID to recognise if the container is eligible for refund? Just my guess. This is the kind of info government should explain, so people understand the reasons and don’t waste their time crushing cans.
I had just bought a soft drink can crusher THEN heard how the container deposit scheme wants them uncrushed for the barcode to be read.
Oh well. I still have a crusher…
