• Force_majeure123
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    11 hours ago

    Every now and then and I let myself think for long enough that I start wondering: is this enough? Am I a total fuck up? just a little bit? does it matter anyway? how could I be better? what if i…? and then my distractions blissfully take over and I forget all that for a few weeks. Ho hum

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      9 hours ago

      As long as I do my best, that’s all that matters. Even if it’s shit compared to others efforts it doesn’t matter because I know I gave it my best shot. That’s how I sleep well at night anyway.

    • Gibsonhasafluffybutt
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      10 hours ago

      It doesn’t matter.

      All that matters is that you have peace and contentment i think.

      That’s how I try to live. I fail often, but I never give up.

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      10 hours ago

      I solved that problem by accepting I was a fuckup. Lots of us are not perfect. That’s life.

    • TheWitchofThornbury
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      11 hours ago

      Fuck up compared to what? The middle-class aspirational consumerism-is-all lifestyle? Nah, that’s not where it’s at.

    • StudSpud The Starchy
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      11 hours ago

      Us fuck ups gotta stick together, until the next wave of disassociation hits lol

      Besides, you’re not a fuck up, not anymore than anyone else. Your life has meaning and value, whatever way you live it 💜