• fullkitwanker
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    1 year ago

    Haven’t heard back from the hinge person after inviting her to the tennis (been over 30 hours but who’s counting)😩 maybe she got bored or maybe just a busy weekend (copium). Whatever.

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      Over investment in internet people before meeting isn’t good for the brain. Says she who purchased a fictitious numbat for strangers, but is also approaching 10 anniversary with Boyo from OKC. Enthusiasm can’t be scheduled. 🧀

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        Yeah it’s definitely not good for me, especially someone with anxiety (self diagnosed). I keep checking my phone for no reason, I don’t know why I keep downloading that app 😩

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        What’s > 0? She’s been replying like once every 12-15 hrs anyway. I’ll probably give up if I don’t hear back tonight. 💁‍♂️

        Is it worth texting one more time or just let it be?

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          The ball is in her court, which is very apt

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          Don’t give up after one message. Especially since you had obvious rapport… she wasn’t talking to you for no reason.

          Be prepared for it to be a sign she’s not interest. But there’s no reason to jump to conclusions yet.

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            Yeah we had a good conversation going. I just feel sad, why am I so invested in this?? Also, do you mean maybe leave her another message before giving up?

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              Don’t message again. It makes you look desperate. Move on and if she gets back to you, great. If not, whatever.

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                Yeah, that’s what I thought as well but was confused by Pilk’s comment.