Seagoon_ to Melbourne · 11 months agoDaily Discussion Thread: Sun 07 Jan 2024message-squaremessage-square123fedilinkarrow-up14arrow-down10
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minus-squarePilklinkfedilinkarrow-up1·11 months agoDon’t give up after one message. Especially since you had obvious rapport… she wasn’t talking to you for no reason. Be prepared for it to be a sign she’s not interest. But there’s no reason to jump to conclusions yet.
minus-squarefullkitwankerlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·11 months agoYeah we had a good conversation going. I just feel sad, why am I so invested in this?? Also, do you mean maybe leave her another message before giving up?
minus-squareGibsonisafluffybuttlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·11 months agoDon’t message again. It makes you look desperate. Move on and if she gets back to you, great. If not, whatever.
minus-squarefullkitwankerlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·11 months agoYeah, that’s what I thought as well but was confused by Pilk’s comment.
Don’t give up after one message. Especially since you had obvious rapport… she wasn’t talking to you for no reason.
Be prepared for it to be a sign she’s not interest. But there’s no reason to jump to conclusions yet.
Yeah we had a good conversation going. I just feel sad, why am I so invested in this?? Also, do you mean maybe leave her another message before giving up?
Don’t message again. It makes you look desperate. Move on and if she gets back to you, great. If not, whatever.
Yeah, that’s what I thought as well but was confused by Pilk’s comment.