There’s someone you’re forgetting in your apology.
You aren’t innocent in this.
They may have overreacted, (indeed they did) and quite frankly as would I have if I were in their position, but you continued to badger them.
That doesn’t mean they didn’t fuck up. And it doesn’t mean they didn’t make a mistake.
There is no doubt of that.
Sometimes when we stand up for the things we believe in, when the people we care about are in the firing line, we may may err in how we communicate. We may let our anger get the better of us in a moment.
I assure you if the topic was particularly close to my heart my sense of decorum would go out the window and my frustration would get the better of me. And i would be surprised by any who wouldn’t. Especially when they are being goaded further.
But I’ll wait until the person who was banned is allowed back so I can hear what they have to say as well.
I’m not a fan of witch hunts nor of popularity contests.
I can’t not answer this. He asked what was it that was rude. Spud chose a rant rather than explanation including “you’re 17 not 7”. They’re not his parent. You don’t say that to someone. No wonder he was peeved. Fight or flight. He chose the former then the latter.
I’m sure both regret their responses to each other.
There’s someone you’re forgetting in your apology.
You aren’t innocent in this.
They may have overreacted, (indeed they did) and quite frankly as would I have if I were in their position, but you continued to badger them.
That doesn’t mean they didn’t fuck up. And it doesn’t mean they didn’t make a mistake.
There is no doubt of that.
Sometimes when we stand up for the things we believe in, when the people we care about are in the firing line, we may may err in how we communicate. We may let our anger get the better of us in a moment.
I assure you if the topic was particularly close to my heart my sense of decorum would go out the window and my frustration would get the better of me. And i would be surprised by any who wouldn’t. Especially when they are being goaded further.
But I’ll wait until the person who was banned is allowed back so I can hear what they have to say as well.
I’m not a fan of witch hunts nor of popularity contests.
That’s my 2 cents.
I can’t not answer this. He asked what was it that was rude. Spud chose a rant rather than explanation including “you’re 17 not 7”. They’re not his parent. You don’t say that to someone. No wonder he was peeved. Fight or flight. He chose the former then the latter.
I’m sure both regret their responses to each other.
I want to answer properly and I’m about to crash out. I’ll reply again to your message tomorrow.
It deserves a clear and awake mind.