I can’t not answer this. He asked what was it that was rude. Spud chose a rant rather than explanation including “you’re 17 not 7”. They’re not his parent. You don’t say that to someone. No wonder he was peeved. Fight or flight. He chose the former then the latter.
I’m sure both regret their responses to each other.
Hi sorry for the late response, I’m on sick leave.
I don’t disagree that spud overreacted. And i believe they have, or will when they are allowed back, be apologising for what happened. But i can’t speak for them.
I understand where you’re coming from, but he could have just blocked her if he felt that he was being treated poorly.
And admittedly, that decision doesn’t come easy when you’re feeling cornered.
I don’t think it’s fair to lay the blame entirely on one person (even though they instigated it) when there was a dialogue where both people continued to attack each other.
Yeah that makes sense. I tried to stop it because it was turning into a car crash. They were both antagonistic towards each other and I hope it doesn’t happen again between anyone because everyone feels shit afterwards.
I can’t stress enough about getting good sleep particularly young people which I know they both struggle with. I do understand that’s hard for some.
Anyway I hope you feel better soon and look after yourself. You’re a good person. 💜
I can’t not answer this. He asked what was it that was rude. Spud chose a rant rather than explanation including “you’re 17 not 7”. They’re not his parent. You don’t say that to someone. No wonder he was peeved. Fight or flight. He chose the former then the latter.
I’m sure both regret their responses to each other.
I want to answer properly and I’m about to crash out. I’ll reply again to your message tomorrow.
It deserves a clear and awake mind.
Hi sorry for the late response, I’m on sick leave.
I don’t disagree that spud overreacted. And i believe they have, or will when they are allowed back, be apologising for what happened. But i can’t speak for them.
I understand where you’re coming from, but he could have just blocked her if he felt that he was being treated poorly.
And admittedly, that decision doesn’t come easy when you’re feeling cornered.
I don’t think it’s fair to lay the blame entirely on one person (even though they instigated it) when there was a dialogue where both people continued to attack each other.
I hope that makes sense.
Yeah that makes sense. I tried to stop it because it was turning into a car crash. They were both antagonistic towards each other and I hope it doesn’t happen again between anyone because everyone feels shit afterwards.
I can’t stress enough about getting good sleep particularly young people which I know they both struggle with. I do understand that’s hard for some.
Anyway I hope you feel better soon and look after yourself. You’re a good person. 💜
You did the right thing, and I would have done the same. And you’re right, it absolutely mucks up the vibe of this place.
You’re a good person as well CEO. We can only do our best and hope that we can learn from our mistakes.
Sorry for the incredibly late response. I’ve been sick as a dog.