• StudSpud The Starchy
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      He understands, he just doesn’t want to accept it. It’s not about swaying you it’s about making you so uncomfortable that you’ll say yes just to get it “over with”.

      He doesn’t care about your feelings or consent. And do not let him into your house again.

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        This.

        It is such a good idea to have your own transport arranged to get home

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      No means yes or possibly yes to some people, no matter how clear you are.

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      What is up with men who can’t take a hint? Unfortunately not uncommon with some meetup groups :(

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      Yikes.

      This guy was being wilfully oblivious, ignoring all boundaries and just trying to take advantage ⛳️

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      Maybe next time don’t ask boundary challenged guys in to meet the cats

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        Ugh I have no idea why you are downvoted - I agree wholeheartedly with this.

        Do not allow men into your home who have already ignored your consent. Not victim blaming, but people perceived as women must be careful in today’s world what with the utter disrespect and violence towards AFABs/women/femmes.

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          exactly, don’t invite trouble in to your house