Sometimes you have to say something about it if it really bothers you or bothering will change, your friendship with her will either be ok or it’ll break, whether you say something or not with the way things are going.

On the subject of mortgage, not really appropriate and you have to make that clear.

I was having a conversation with a lifelong friend I’ve had since I was in primary school and we were talking about financial things and I overshared stuff about myself and my friend’s just come out and said not to talk to anyone else about those certain things.

I didn’t realise at the time when I said it but he was correct but luckily I trust him a lot as well.

Back on track you know what’s going to happen to your detriment and you’re not happy about it so you need out your foot down and tell her no, no pizza tomorrow.

I don’t have much time for people who are always late, its rude.

Sounds like you guys should hang out, out of your house, where they can’t make a mess of your space.

being late is such a big no no

but I do believe the annoyance of the tardiness made you a little less tolerant than you would normally be

paper towels, not a problem, they are meant to be used, just grab more, if you didn’t have enough then next time buy more

move the stuff on the table aside or put on bench

late in the evening, then say something

tomorrow’s pizza, just say no, if she says her own place is messy then tell her to clean it up