I felt that around date 4-6 with my guy. I think it was me starting to catch feelings & getting anxious about what we were/ where things were at. I prompted a chat about it, and that really helped.
If you feel okay doing so, maybe call it out and chat about it with bar guy?
This is totally natural, I’m a guy and had the same feelings after the first few dates with a new GF, I felt that it was going to be something good, but maybe held back a bit to see if my feelings weren’t lying to me and that I could get hurt again.
Have been with Mrs_Owl for 23 years since I overcame those doubts and took a chance.
I’ve got something a little weird going on with my feelings.
Things with bar guy are going relatively well. However, suddenly I feel nervous around him and going on dates? I don’t know what’s happening.
Self sabotage?
I felt that around date 4-6 with my guy. I think it was me starting to catch feelings & getting anxious about what we were/ where things were at. I prompted a chat about it, and that really helped.
If you feel okay doing so, maybe call it out and chat about it with bar guy?
This is totally natural, I’m a guy and had the same feelings after the first few dates with a new GF, I felt that it was going to be something good, but maybe held back a bit to see if my feelings weren’t lying to me and that I could get hurt again.
Have been with Mrs_Owl for 23 years since I overcame those doubts and took a chance.