Something just feels a bit off in my relationship and I don’t know what.
Which leads to anxiety about anxiety. I just want peace (which is a way of turning the ‘struggle switch’ on trying to make the feeling go away, not helpful).
It’s better to be upfront with someone instead of driving yourself up the wall with “what ifs”. If I were in his shoes, I’d want to know what’s bothering you and communicate.
Something just feels a bit off in my relationship and I don’t know what.
Which leads to anxiety about anxiety. I just want peace (which is a way of turning the ‘struggle switch’ on trying to make the feeling go away, not helpful).
I say go with your gut feeling here. Might be the wrong advice though.
Has bar guy started asking how your day was?
I agree, and yeah occasionally he does. It’s not a daily non-negotiable thing that he does, whereas it sort of is for me. I’ve held back a bit though.
He’s definitely more attentive in person
What feels off?
That’s the thing, I’m not entirely sure
talk with partner , give and receive hugs
Communicating when you don’t know what’s up is hard but will do somehow. 🫡🫡🫡
It’s better to be upfront with someone instead of driving yourself up the wall with “what ifs”. If I were in his shoes, I’d want to know what’s bothering you and communicate.