Happy Fish Fingers and Custard Day

  • Gibsonisafluffybutt
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    3 months ago

    I went to this party the other day. There was this lady there that kept staring at me whenever she was near by and I was chatting to someone. I introduced myself but didn’t get a chance to talk to her again that night.

    I’m going to be in a group of people and she’ll be there as well on the weekend.

    Do you think it’s worth trying to ask her out?

    I know how this sounds but I missed a lot of this stuff growing up due to bad decisions.

    I feel like a teenager with this stuff.

    • 00Steve
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      3 months ago

      Yeh this weekend sounds like a good chance to actually get to chat to her a bit and get a bit of a feel of things. Then if it feels good absolutely ask her out :)

    • Seagoon_
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      3 months ago

      maybe just chat at the party for a while and see how it goes , then ask her out 😊🤞

      • Gibsonisafluffybutt
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        3 months ago

        Does the staring thing mean she wants me to talk to her? I know it’s a dumb question but I honestly don’t know 😔

        • Catfish
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          3 months ago

          Alternatively you may have spinach in your teeth, or she’s trying to figure out the seams in something interesting you’re wearing. (Guilty of the later many a time)

        • StudSpud The Starchy
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          3 months ago

          I stare at people who I find attractive, before I realise I’m doing it. No harm in chatting with her next time you see her, and asking if she wants to get a coffee sometime :)

          Worst case: she says no (no biggie)
          Good case: you make a new friend!
          Great case: you dare for a number of years
          Best case: you grow old together

          My metaphor lost it at the end, but my point is, you don’t know until you do :) give it a shot!