When I did it was only violence which stopped as I got older and fought back.

I hug my dad on greeting and parting. It continued that way until adolescence, paused, and resumed at maybe 25 y.o

I do and he doesn’t. We’re not a very outwardly affectionate type of family and he’s one one of those country town raised boomer types who doesn’t go in for that stuff.

I still have hugs with my dad though he wasn’t around for half my childhood.

Only when we either greet each other or say goodbye does it happen.