It’s actually Palm Sunday but I’d like to change it to Chicken Parma Sunday instead. 🐓

  • just_kitten
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    3 months ago

    The nearby social housing residents are really acting up this week. Screamy guy was yelling incoherently at the neighbours with the disabled moaning kid a couple days ago and had a few flare ups. Loud exhaust guy has been around. And tonight there’s some male voice making repeated monotone “aah, aah, aah” sounds that have been so consistent that I thought it was a frog for a while. Mixed in with screamy guy. In a way I look forward to the cold when I can close my windows all night and not have to hear all this…

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      3 months ago

      Ear plugs are your friends. I recommend Happy Ears ear plugs.

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      3 months ago

      The part I struggle with, is that I want people who are in need, to have a place to call home.

      But what do you do when it comes with all these kinds of issues?

      I think I’d struggle to cope.

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        3 months ago

        The housing first model is absolutely needed. Unfortunately Australia often stops at housing (if even doing that) and just warehouses people. So there’s a really bad mix of vulnerable people in with aggressive people or challenging behaviours, little to no support or oversight, and a lot of issues arise.

        Basically I tolerate it until my safety is on the line.

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        3 months ago

        Yeah, I have the same thoughts. Speaking from my experience with Resi, people often feed off of each other’s energy and vibes, and it’s hard to treat somewhere with respect when nobody else cares. In the case of public housing towers, that can mean anything from not giving a shit about how noisy you are when nobody else does either, to littering or graffitiing because why not?

        The only 2 ideas that come to mind are either: not allowing such behaviour and evicting people who don’t behave in an acceptable manner (not great since then a lot of people would have no choice except homelessness, and there’s a very big power imbalance), or spread everybody out into the wider community with little units or similar (not great since that would be very expensive, and can you imagine the NIMBYism everybody would kick up if they tried?).

        There’s also other options, although to be effective enough they’d also need to be combined with other things, like better mental health care, generally affordable housing, less institutionalisation through incarceration and similar, etc

        I know how much those housing towers suck. I’ve never been in one, but I have been in a housing commission flat out in the country and that wasn’t great. I’ll be honest, I would never consider living in one of those housing towers. I would genuinely rather be homeless than live in one. So I can’t exactly say I blame the people there for very much at all