• legios
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    10 months ago

    I broke up with my partner. Honestly for the best and I’m in a great mood. I somehow seem to find people with the lowest empathy and EQ levels possible whereas I’m very high on both and end up being their ‘support’ but if I’m not doing OK I’m a shit person.

    Working on doing more exercise. Set up a home gym and trying to lose my covid weight. In a great mood and kinda love storms so it’s a win/win!

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      10 months ago

      At least you’re in a positive frame of mind and moving forward in your life. Sometimes it’s a relief to end a relationship that wasn’t really doing it for you or was a replay of past mistakes.

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        10 months ago

        Yeah 100%. Best to just move on than feel judged and pressured by others.

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        10 months ago

        No it’s really OK. Thank you for your concern. I provide all the support I can but when I’m not doing OK (I’ve had friends who couldn’t handle this time of year and ended their own lives…) I’m the shit person for needing my own time.

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          10 months ago

          hugs

          sometimes I think that people should just talk more and having good will is so important too