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  • Catfish
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    1 year ago

    Please be careful on this one. I have friends who are so utterly enmeshed that the daughter hasn’t left at over 30. It’s not healthy for anyone.

    • CEOofmyhouse56
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      1 year ago

      So bars on her window is not a good idea?

      Seriously if she wants to stay until she’s 40 she’s welcome.

    • Taleya
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      1 year ago

      Unhealthy Enmeshment and multi-generation households are very different things though.

      • Catfish
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        1 year ago

        Agreed. The younger one in this equation has never had a full time job or a relationship counted beyond months. It’s kinda hard to detail, I met the knot when she was 12, almost nothing has changed.