• Llabyrinthine
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    13 days ago

    Sorry, but F the fact that there isn’t a place for you to stay when you’re already travelling interstate with a toddler.

    AND that it would cost 1k for accommodation and they’re only telling you in November. With the cost of things?

    TF is wrong with people.

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      13 days ago

      thank you! thats my take on it. But the mrs is like “its no big deal”.

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        13 days ago

        Yeah, no, sorry to the Mrs, but honestly sometimes we don’t want to hang out under forced conditions, on the holidays nonetheless. Most of us have probably done it for a number of occasions. Life is just too short at this point to always be accommodating to others when they’re not even somewhat thinking of us.

        It might be worth having a good chat with the Mrs to clear the air and try and get on the same page. While I understand that she might not think it’s a big deal, it’s not fair to invalidate your feelings on it. You might agree to disagree, but for sure, if I was expected to be okay with it this time, I would not be doing it again.

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        13 days ago

        If it’s no big deal for youse guys then surely it’s an easier deal for the inlaws to travel to you