• Mittens_meow
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    6 months ago

    Dreamed that I was living in Japan…. It was such a good feeling to be away from all the bullshit currently in my life. I’d love nothing more but to sell up and move away for a peaceful life. Japanese culture vibes with me, introvert, rules, respect, politeness etc.

    Have a Tatts ticket for Saturday. Fingers crossed.

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      6 months ago

      There’s also rigid social norms, excessive work hours and a population time bomb.

      I guess my point is there is no nirvana and it’s tempting to romanticize somewhere else when things are shit in your life now. But things must be examined with a critical eye.

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        6 months ago

        xpat life is different to local life

        it can be a good break from life back home , distance can give perspective and a mental break , and that can give strength to cope with the ordinary troubles of everyday life.

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          6 months ago

          I mean sure you could say that about any holiday destination.

          But she said she dreamed about living in Japan which to me suggests an expat existence.

          And expats may be given a free pass on a lot of things but many expats report feeling disconnect and isolated because they are not part of the culture so that has it’s own issues too.

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            6 months ago

            Would be no different from my life now really. Except awesome noodles.