last night at dinner, I cooked a nice dinner for BIL. narcissist mil always has to give a reason why she can’t cook the fabulous dinners she used to cook, fabulous dinners that are much better than anything I do, while at the same time playing victim to get attention. She has done this routine for decades. She has never cooked in anyone’s memory.
MIL 😢"I can’t cook because I can’t chop vegetables anymore."
Seagoon in the deadest most emotionless voice she can muster. “buy frozen vegetables”
Then on leaving she had the cheek to expect to take home any left overs. I used to pack her loads of complete meals to take home in containers and a bag.
But she refused to give back my ikea containers and said the good quality grocery tote was perfect for her rubbish bag. Such disrespect.
ha ha, was thinking the same thing about my mil#1, she’s 87 and convinced she can and should drive
i don’t really care if she bingles, etc, but i do worry she might hurt someone else
i might dob her in to the cops
false hope? I live on that shit. makes me able to get through each day
now i’m just waiting for fam to die so i can at least be left in peace and not worry about money
lol. Ouch but fair enough.
i am so over it all
last night at dinner, I cooked a nice dinner for BIL. narcissist mil always has to give a reason why she can’t cook the fabulous dinners she used to cook, fabulous dinners that are much better than anything I do, while at the same time playing victim to get attention. She has done this routine for decades. She has never cooked in anyone’s memory.
MIL 😢"I can’t cook because I can’t chop vegetables anymore."
Seagoon in the deadest most emotionless voice she can muster. “buy frozen vegetables”
rest of table. Utter silence
Erk. Still, calling out self deception can be considered good work.
Then on leaving she had the cheek to expect to take home any left overs. I used to pack her loads of complete meals to take home in containers and a bag.
But she refused to give back my ikea containers and said the good quality grocery tote was perfect for her rubbish bag. Such disrespect.
She doesn’t get anything now.
Cheeeesus. I think I’d have slapped her.