There were too many yep, yep, etc I was like that, I am like that to deny it. It opened the floodgates of my memory banks and then mum confirmed a lot of what I couldn’t remember about when I was really really young. Brain wired for oestrogen body producing lots of testosterone makes homer something something. I see it all as a blessing honestly. Who else gets a chance to have a 2nd puberty in middle age with the benefit of life experience? I always knew I didn’t fit in anywhere and hoped I was some kind of special unique person. I’m not unique, but rare. Lots and lots of similar anecdotes usually mean something.