So, bros wedding coming up this w/e which I’m excited about.
But it has been dropped on me I’m going to a rehearsal on thursday (I’m not doing anything at the wedding), going out for dins with brides’ extended fam friday, and looking after their cat for 10 days apparently from the day after their wedding. It’s all good but I’ve heard all of that second hand and it keeps changing which I’m not impressed about.
Like I understand it’s a massive day / moment and it’s stressful but this sort of stuff should be communicated not within the week of it happening.
So, bros wedding coming up this w/e which I’m excited about.
But it has been dropped on me I’m going to a rehearsal on thursday (I’m not doing anything at the wedding), going out for dins with brides’ extended fam friday, and looking after their cat for 10 days apparently from the day after their wedding. It’s all good but I’ve heard all of that second hand and it keeps changing which I’m not impressed about.
Like I understand it’s a massive day / moment and it’s stressful but this sort of stuff should be communicated not within the week of it happening.
Thank you for listening.
This is good quality outrage and you’re NTA here.
Single childless family members unite, we’re often the last to be thought of.
Heh yeah for real.
I’ve sometimes wondered if that’s a thing and it’s probably not too far off.
I’m gonna do the things but yea… thoughts about it all.
Nah I’m with you. That would shit me.
Thank you for the solidarity :)
I thought I was going mad.