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  • Pilk
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    1 year ago

    Seems to me like you’re giving up way too easily.

    Don’t do that before you decide to ask a much more direct question about your status together. There is literally nothing to lose.

    “Hey, I’m not sure if you’re still keen to hang out again. I’d like to, what are your thoughts?”

    Edit: And just read your other comments. It’s still way too early. You’re overthinking it. Don’t listen to the DT’s resident pessimist.

    • hasteee
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      1 year ago

      OK thanks Pilk, I’ll keep that in mind as well.

      I guess we just keep talking organically and if a second date happens it happens.

      Alternatively I could be more direct with her say tomorrow when she’s not hungover and see what she says.

      I do like the idea of being direct about it all. We’re grown ups after all.

      EDIT: As fullkit and yourself have suggested I’ll just let things roll and not read into it at all for now. See where the conversation moves to next and see if she suggests anything!

    • hasteee
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      1 year ago

      So I asked what you suggested and she just wants to be friends. Time to move on. Thanks for your advice.

      • Pilk
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        1 year ago

        Well I am sorry to hear that. It’s good to know for sure though. On to the next one :)