I don’t know why this take hits me so hard. It’s so utterly comical in my brain. It’s such a bizarre idea to me that we’re going to be bleeding the users who have been here when it was literally only hexbear after a week or two of federation because, what, do they think their posting power is going to sway people over there? This is one of the least controversial site decisions to have happened over on this side of the coin. The idea of this being a phenomenon that will happen with multiple, let alone even one of our pre-federation users is so utterly incompatible with my mental model of Hexbear that I can’t fucking get over it. It’s fucking fascinating 
if you are one of these people planning to exodus to blahaj full-time please let me know because it’s too good of a bit to keep to yourself
The best part is that I know for sure a few blahaj members have opened accounts here.
Surely hexbear will bleed a ton of members to the site that just offended a bunch of our queer comrades…
They know nothing about us. Lol
ngl they know nothing about anything, these people are some of the least informed libs i’ve ever seen
and you know that bar is in hell
And now the freaks are crawling out of the woodworks. Go check NuMetalAlchemist’s post history. Completely full of creepy shit like this:
CW Fucking creepy shit from a fucking creep
HOW DARE YOU GET RID OF THE PORN
I CANT DEAL WITH OPENING A SECOND WEBSITE TO JACK OFF
:Frotting-fash:
Not even porn, he’s bitching about jailbait type stuff
CW: mentions of CSA
“No, you don’t understand! The comm was called fauxbait as in faux jailbait! I’m not jacking it to children just adults that look like children, and are sexualised because of how childlike they look! No this isn’t CP with extra steps! You’re just sensitive!”
Actual argument I saw during lemmyNSFW defed.
Reddit moment
Jesus. I thought that ended with Violentcrez.
They responded to me accusing me of being transphobic for saying I wouldn’t want to date a chaser
I saw that too. Truly vile shit.
Yeah at that point I was going to bring up like, how lots of people reported the message, and how they had a site wide struggle session over it that the head mod had to step into, so obviously it wasn’t just me thinking that, but then I just decided that anyone saying anything that disingenuous wasn’t worth engaging and just logged off
anyone saying anything that disingenuous wasn’t worth engaging and just logged off
o7
To win one hundred victories in one hundred battles is not the acme of skill. To subdue the enemy without fighting is the acme of skill. - Sun Tzu
I mean they still ratioed me but I hold the moral high ground there
let me at em let me at em no one ratios my trans comrades
What gross comments, good on you for stepping away from it
ew ew ewwwwww
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Getting older for me is just having more and more hair show up in places I don’t want it to. It’s some bullshit lol. I was already shaving my face every day by the end of high school because of their crappy rules, and it’s only gotten worse in the years since then. I liked it at first, but now it seems by the time I hit 35 I’ll be a full blown gorilla or something lmao
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How is that person not banned holy shit
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Absolutely the right decision, every new vile comment I see from there just confirms it.
Unrealtoo real that it presents as a trans inclusive spaceIsn’t moss a trans woman?
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ah yes, let me back up my bags and move to the… checks notes transphobic trans instance. purge your fucking chasers you
gormless cowards.Damn they don’t even have gorms. Really tells you everything you need to know.
Hexbear has such gorms to show you
We must protect our gorms and institutions
All my gorms gone
If rock-stacking discourse didn’t dislodge me, nothing will
I survived the BRICS waifu struggle session, I’ll survive not having chasers.
I forgot that lmao
“Are women inherently sexual? In this thread we’ll find out”
im glued in here guys
like fr no place is better for my ptsd other than some extremely niche hobby communities that focus solely on one topic with no problematic bits to see. i come here for news and stuff.
hexbear: real bear. in their lane, unbothered. probably knows how to swim.
cringe blahaj: marketable slop. cotton-polyester blend. definitely can’t swim
Blåhaj: Swedish
We’re gonna see this comment linked as an example of a slur or bigotry on a four comment post, while the 196 community next door is doing a loony tunes horny wolf over some poor pre-op influencer or something.
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it’s worth it for the dunking.
On Alexandrite I can switch between browsing Hexbear and Blåhaj Lemmy at the click of a button. I’m told that Liftoff supports browsing both accounts as one feed, so I’m gonna look into that once I’m settled back at home.
I’m announcing my move to Blahaj.
We have no choice but to abandon Hexbear.
https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2137332
it’s always the same comment
[…] being exposed to Hexbear’s community and content has made me extremely concerned. […] There are posts denying genocide, calls to violence, blatant Russian propaganda, apologists galore for authoritarianism, and the constant assurance that anyone not agreeing with these ideas was obviously a Fascist.
Like five people are going to make accounts over there while retaining accounts here so they can still post on both, so basically hexbear has fallen.
Also do we even have the version of lemmy that lets you block communities
you could always block comms. soon we will be able to block whole instances
Yes the mod team discussed removing the /c/[email protected] community from hexbear, but the fact remained that there are multiple instances of appropriate mod actions being taken regarding reactionary lemmy.blahaj.zone users and moderators. Some of the members of the mod team were really angered by the DM leak and with a pretty clear majority of hexbear users wanted to defederate we decided to make one last attempt. We messaged their admin when TomboyShulk made the post and we waited approximately four hours after that to actually remove them based on the action or inaction taken.
I’m still not sure how Lemmy works.
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i know i can get in a cutthroat debate over here over the amount of communists that can fit on the head of a pin and not block/ban anybody involved, have a fun time with the same people the next day—what the fuck could they possibly offer superior to that?
The decision was unanimous with us.
We literally all collectively said “fuck ‘em”
Just the existence of 196 on that site makes it awful. Why did they see fit to host a bunch of transphobic, nationalist edgelords? Comments I’ve seen from there make me think their own userbase is unsure about staying.
