I’m a conservative. I don’t mind the liberal stuff here. It’s good to learn the other side, but I don’t want a liberal echo chamber. I’d like to be more politically balanced in the fediverse. Is there any way I can do that?

  • duckington@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    166
    arrow-down
    6
    ·
    11 months ago

    Unfortunately most of the more “conservative” instances became highly toxic and so most other instances have defederated with them.

    • euphoria@kbin.social
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      108
      arrow-down
      11
      ·
      11 months ago

      funny how every time conservatives group up, their communities become so toxic, full of hate and conspiracies, that people have no choice but to cut ties lol

      • Astroturfed@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        63
        arrow-down
        10
        ·
        11 months ago

        Woah, woah, there… Telling all the trannies and colored folks to die is their protected free speech rights. How dare you cancel them.

        • euphoria@kbin.social
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          30
          arrow-down
          12
          ·
          edit-2
          11 months ago

          they’d thrive on 4chan. i recommend OP go there. that’s a breeding ground for this ideology. they can enjoy all the loli, nazi, and “n***er” rekt gore threads they desire

          • DebatableRaccoon@lemmy.ca
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            6
            arrow-down
            1
            ·
            11 months ago

            I have to ask, what do lolis have to do with the rest? I can’t say I’m a fan but I feel like I’ve missed a memo.

            • euphoria@kbin.social
              link
              fedilink
              arrow-up
              13
              arrow-down
              1
              ·
              11 months ago

              4chan has a shiiiit ton of loli threads, sometimes containing real cp unfortunately, and some ai generated realistic cp. and, 4chan is a cesspool of alt right cunts. they are the ones proudly producing the threads

              • Arctic@lemmy.world
                link
                fedilink
                arrow-up
                5
                arrow-down
                1
                ·
                11 months ago

                Just on /b/ for that.

                /pol/ is the serious fascist breeding ground. I step in occasionally just to see what talking point these guys are going to be drumming in the mainstream in 3 to 6 months. It bleeds over everywhere else on 4chan so there’s a high overlap, but people on /b/ are surprisingly varied (if universally idiots, but I guess that’s kind of the point).

                • euphoria@kbin.social
                  link
                  fedilink
                  arrow-up
                  1
                  arrow-down
                  1
                  ·
                  11 months ago

                  both are disgusting cesspits. i see no variation on /b/. its all loli, rekt, nazi threads, andy biersack, and porn

      • mayo@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        15
        arrow-down
        3
        ·
        11 months ago

        It’s because their political leader at the moment is a populist. They can’t help but be a bunch of cunts. Monkey see money do kind of thing.

        • phillaholic@lemm.ee
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          10
          arrow-down
          32
          ·
          11 months ago

          Here’s an unpopular opinion. I saw a lot of the same elements in the Bernie crowd. Not for taking peoples rights or anything illegal like that mind you, but they were very quick to want to ignore the rules during the primary to throw out the choice of the Democratic majority in order to have Bernie win over Hillary. To this day I still hear conspiracy theory talking points about how Bernie really won, or how he was winning the real polls, etc. it’s the same populist rhetoric and it’s dangerous.

          • CountZero@lemmy.world
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            19
            arrow-down
            1
            ·
            11 months ago

            Yeah, but how often did Bernie himself repeat those conspiracy theories? Did he ever try to violently overturn the Democratic primary results? Every popular person has some shitty supporters, so you can’t just judge people based on their supporters.

            • phillaholic@lemm.ee
              link
              fedilink
              arrow-up
              2
              arrow-down
              12
              ·
              11 months ago

              Bernie never said anything to my knowledge, which is why I said the Bernie Crowd. It was limited to a chunk of his fan base that discussed ignoring primary results and awarding delegates to Bernie. Violent or Non-Violent wasn’t the point. The rules were set before the primary, and Bernie lost. Any attempt at discussion of anything regarding overturning that result is overturning democracy. That was scary to read. You don’t think that would ever turn into a coup attempt, but It’s enough to have made me uncomfortable.

              I only blame Bernie as much as his populist rhetoric misleads people. Nothing actually happened, and I don’t believe he would have stood for it if it did.

          • CountZero@lemmy.world
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            8
            arrow-down
            1
            ·
            11 months ago

            Yeah, but how often did Bernie himself repeat those conspiracy theories? Did he ever try to violently overturn the Democratic primary results? Every popular person has some shitty supporters, so you can’t just judge people based on their supporters.

      • Whirlybird
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        1
        ·
        edit-2
        11 months ago

        You want to see a toxic community? Check out politics on this very instance. It’s one gigantic toxic far left “progressive” circle jerk echo chamber. Anyone that says anything not straight out of the official democrat approved talking points playbook is brigaded and called a nazi/fascist/bigot.

        Both far sides are as toxic as each other. What OP wants, and what I think many would like, is a community that wasn’t hostile to either side, and that’s up to the mods and the users. Unfortunately the installed mods don’t want any part in nuanced conversation, they want a circle jerk for their ideologies.

      • src@lemmy.ml
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        14
        arrow-down
        20
        ·
        edit-2
        11 months ago

        Have you seen all the comments on this thread?

        Instead of answering the OPs question, 100+ people are just bashing him for thinking differently, saying stuff like “Well, why are you conservative in the first place? Conservatism is so stupid! People on the right are evil, monsters, etc.”

        This left wing echo chamber is already very hateful and against any differing opinions.

        • retrieval4558@mander.xyz
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          16
          arrow-down
          5
          ·
          11 months ago

          It’s not “thinking differently” it’s “the beliefs necessary to maintain that political stance are stupid and cruel”.

          • Whirlybird
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            1
            ·
            11 months ago

            So thinking that biological males shouldn’t compete against biological females means your beliefs are stupid and cruel? Believing that all people should have the right to voice their opinions without being censored is “stupid and cruel”?

            • retrieval4558@mander.xyz
              link
              fedilink
              arrow-up
              1
              arrow-down
              1
              ·
              11 months ago

              Which one is the party banning books right now? You’re a lying disingenuous shitbag and this is why your conservatism isn’t respected.

              • Whirlybird
                link
                fedilink
                arrow-up
                1
                arrow-down
                1
                ·
                edit-2
                11 months ago

                No one is banning books. What is happening is people are calling for books to be restricted to people of the appropriate age. No 10 year old should be reading a book telling them how to have anal and oral sex. Why on earth would you think that is ok? Why do you think they should be given access to and in some cases forced to read that?

                Thanks for the insults though, very mature and intelligent of you.

          • Snowman44@lemmy.worldOP
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            7
            arrow-down
            15
            ·
            11 months ago

            Not every conservative is a racist nazi. Some of us just want the government to stick to doing what’s in the constitution.

            • Falmarri@lemmy.world
              link
              fedilink
              English
              arrow-up
              12
              arrow-down
              2
              ·
              11 months ago

              So then how can you possibly agree with the right? Is banning books in the Constitution?

            • Vendetta9076@sh.itjust.works
              link
              fedilink
              arrow-up
              8
              arrow-down
              5
              ·
              11 months ago

              Westerners, especially Americans, have a really really hard time believing that you can be socially one thing and governmentally/economically another. For instance Im radically socially leftist but economically libertarian.

              Because Americans have been force fed the lie that you have to pick one size fits all, they assume that every conservative is also socially conservative. Which, in the case of America, means you support the wild anti lgbt/anti abortion legislation.

        • duckington@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          12
          arrow-down
          3
          ·
          11 months ago

          I agree. The way I worded my comment was very intentional to not bash conservatism. I don’t consider myself one but I thought OP’s question was pretty respectful and I do find it unfortunate that he doesn’t have a community on here that isn’t extremely radicalized.

          • src@lemmy.ml
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            6
            arrow-down
            2
            ·
            edit-2
            11 months ago

            Yeah, it’s a shame that people can’t be more civil and respectful to each other.

    • rist097@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      26
      arrow-down
      41
      ·
      edit-2
      11 months ago

      I think they would be more moderate if more moderate people would have opportunity to participate. Right now all of the non left instances or communities get too quickly defederated and deleted, so moderate people who would normally participate dont want to create na account on a completely defederated instance. The only thing you are left of there are some crazies.

      The only way I heard of conservative communities here is from a post that is asking for defederation or deletion

      • Jimbo@yiffit.net
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        75
        arrow-down
        13
        ·
        11 months ago

        Well, the conservatives in those communities could try being less horrible pieces of shit and not bring hate to minority spaces, but that’s probably too much to ask

        • Puppy@kbin.social
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          43
          arrow-down
          7
          ·
          11 months ago

          Remember when being conservative meant you wanted lower tax?

          Now it’s a competition to see who’s going to say the most toxic stuff and who can become the biggest piece of trash a human being can be

          “I LOVE RUSSIA TRUMP IS MY GOD FUCK LGBTS ALL TRANS ARE PEDOPHILE SOROS BILL GATES WOKE WOKE WOKE WOKE WOKE WOKE WOKE WOKE FAUCI OBAMA BUT HER EMAILS BUT HIS LAPTOPS BUD LITE WOKE WOKE”

          like holy shit, calm down a bit…

          • mayo@lemmy.world
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            8
            arrow-down
            2
            ·
            11 months ago

            That was like 15 years ago as I remember it. Being a conservative was about being a fiscal responsibility, and there was an expectation that we were all moving in the same direction socially. Now it’s all messed up.

      • euphoria@kbin.social
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        39
        arrow-down
        7
        ·
        edit-2
        11 months ago

        conservative spaces shouldn’t need moderates to balance out their toxicity and crazy when left on their own, they simply shouldn’t be toxic and crazy. why do they need their hand held? it gets defederated quickly because THEY always quickly turn their spaces into pure hate, and they choose to spread that. that’s on them, not us.

          • _thisdot@infosec.pub
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            2
            arrow-down
            10
            ·
            11 months ago

            It’s funny. What is happening here is “hate” towards conservatives!

            And no, conservatism is not built upon hate. There has to be a left, there has to be a right. And the absence of either would drive us to dictatorship (lack of left wing) or anarchy (lack of right wing)

            • qevlarr@lemmy.world
              link
              fedilink
              arrow-up
              2
              arrow-down
              2
              ·
              11 months ago

              Oh no, anarchy

              … Uh so no dominance hierarchies, where no one rules over another? Yeah, don’t threaten me with a good time

      • PsychedSy@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        4
        arrow-down
        3
        ·
        11 months ago

        I’m socially pretty left but a voluntarist and it feels pretty hostile. Even socially moderate or liberal cons will feel pretty bad. I’m just used to chillin’ in left spaces so it’s whatever.

      • FelipeFelop@discuss.online
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        6
        arrow-down
        5
        ·
        11 months ago

        I get what you’re saying. There’s a mindset in the fediverse that everyone on an instance is responsible for it. Even if the bad actors join later. The instance gets defederated but as a user it can be really hard to know if your instance is defederated.

        It’s a deeply unpopular opinion and anyone who suggests that federation is simultaneously a huge advance and a big problem seems to get downvoted.

        You’re right, ultimately instead of being exposed to a range of views some of which are challenging we’ll end up in little echo chambers.

        We need more moderation and less defederation.

          • FelipeFelop@discuss.online
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            2
            arrow-down
            2
            ·
            11 months ago

            And that’s were moderation (the act of moderation) comes in as a first step rather than instant defederation.

            • Hobbes@startrek.website
              link
              fedilink
              arrow-up
              7
              arrow-down
              1
              ·
              11 months ago

              r/conservative mods handed out bans for anyone even asking a legit question. Conservative arguments aren’t fact based, so any good faith argument is seen as an attack and the only defense is to reject it outright. I don’t know how good moderation can be applied to that.

        • phillaholic@lemm.ee
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          13
          arrow-down
          5
          ·
          11 months ago

          I’m fine being in an echo chamber that Trans people deserve human rights. That’s a hill I’m willing to die on. If you disagree, you can stay out of my bubble, I’m not negotiating this point.

          • FelipeFelop@discuss.online
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            5
            arrow-down
            2
            ·
            edit-2
            11 months ago

            I haven’t mentioned anything about Trans people at all ? There’s nothing to negotiate and I don’t disagree that trans people have a right to be treated with respect and have their rights respected.

            • phillaholic@lemm.ee
              link
              fedilink
              arrow-up
              6
              arrow-down
              2
              ·
              11 months ago

              It’s the hot topic of the moment for conservatives, particularly the ones that are getting banned from public sites. Other than that, it’s all culture war shit like abortion, immigration, border walls, etc that all go into xenophobia, misogamy, racism, antisemitism etc. I haven’t seen any real conservative ideas in a decade. Now it’s all a grift. You either have a old idea of what conservative is or just aren’t saying it out loud. Even when Republicans cut taxes, they cut them massively for the rich and give the middle class and poor pennies. Any time someone wants to put more money in lower classes pockets they fabricate some bullshit to block it (Student Loan Forgiveness, Stimulus Checks) all a while giving Businesses Billions and removing oversight (PPP Loans).

          • Whirlybird
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            1
            ·
            11 months ago

            The problem with the issue you’re talking about - “trans rights are human rights” - is that when even moderately left people ask “what rights don’t trans people have?” they’re labelled transphobic bigoted Nazis and are censored or banned……and still don’t get an actual answer.

            • phillaholic@lemm.ee
              link
              fedilink
              arrow-up
              1
              arrow-down
              1
              ·
              11 months ago

              That’s because 99 times out of 100 it’s a right wing troll saying it. If you really don’t know, read the fucking news. It’s not hard to find. Google LGBT rights, there are more than enough sites that have it all documented. Coming into a conversation and making someone spend the time to prove something obvious is a tactic they use online.