• ashinadash [she/her]@hexbear.net
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    1 year ago

    I find it’s 50/50 on the height thing, like there is the womanlet meme, but also if someone as a heterosexual man is with a woman taller than him, he’ll probably get bullied or whatever?

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      1 year ago

      ive towered over half the men ive been with, no one has ever said anything. unless you have dogshit friends no one you know is gonna say anything also if a man keepsd friends like that you shouldn’t date him. also tall women are still the beauty standard regardless if individual short mens preferences.

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        1 year ago

        I think it’s more of like a chud meme tbf, also being in transfemme internet circles has given me permanently deranged views of height, please help! As a result I find it to be incredibly fascinating that tall is the beauty standard, when all I do is listen to “wah I’m too tall masculine trait” type shit!

        • Othello [comrade/them, love/loves]@hexbear.net
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          here take it from someone who has spent much time as a cis women who has always been very tall. men love it , fucking obsessed with it, short men, tall men, fucking obsessed and not just the fetishist lol. men ask me to wear heels on front of their friends i dont lol. if a short man shows me off thats a win for him because he managed to get a tall hot person. tall men love it because they like kissing someone they dont have to lean down for. the women and enbys? haha, they love it even more. also look at how tall celebrities and models are you gotta be 5.7 minimum to be a model. tall is definitely the standard i get told i should be a model all the time because im tall. also i was the shortest of my old girl friend group we looked like a herd of giraffes none of them have ever had a problem attracting the people they want. tbf the tallest one only dated me when i knew her.