• GenderNeutralBro@lemmy.sdf.org
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    9 months ago

    Open communication is key.

    If my partner told me upfront that they want to use a vibrator, I’d personally be fine with that. But if they did it secretly, it would call into question our entire history. A good relationship is built on trust and an honest representation of each person’s Elo rating.