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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Personal_Survey1332 on 2023-09-18 17:42:16.

My DIL has a lot of boundaries, she has high functioning autism. The first day I met her she gave a list of everything I can’t do around her and if I did she will leave of tell me off. Some of the stuff makes sense other shit just seems like a power move. There are a lot of things but one of them is no matter what you have to be on time. If not she will not let you in or leave without you.

On their wedding day me and my spouse were late due to a large crash in the city, we sat in the back when we came in ( everyone knew what happened since multiple people were affect). She chews up out in her wedding speech. Next big thing was we were five minute late to get dinner with them and she was pissed and told us to leave. Our son doesn’t do anything about it.

Today we were suppose to met them so we can drive them to the airport. We started calling them 15 minutes in to them being late. No answer, they were an hour late when they got to the spot. I told them I can’t drive them anymore since I need to get to my club and go Uber. This ended up in an argument and I called her a hypocrite. They left after I drove away and my son is calling me an asshole and I need to apologize for this.

Should I apologize?