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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Fantastic-Ad-4630 on 2023-09-12 17:34:30.

I have 2 adult sons who are both married and have kids of their own. My wife has alzheimer’s disease and therefore I need help, I can afford to get a nurse for her but I don’t feel right about having an stranger at my home so my oldest son and his 2 children moved in so that he could help me, we gave my oldest son’s room to him, my youngest son’s bedroom to my grandson and our guestroom to my granddaughter.

This however means that whenever my youngest son visits they have to sleep in the living room. He recently complained that it’s not fair that they all have to sleep in the living room while my oldest son and his kids get rooms. He asked me to make my grandson and granddaughter share so that he and his family can have a room.

I told him you know what else is not fair? The fact that your brother is the only one helping out while you do nothing. They live with us therefore they get bedrooms, you are just a guest so you should be grateful for anything you get. He thinks I’m an asshole