• gerryflap@feddit.nl
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    22 hours ago

    As an aro/ace I’m faced with the opposite. How can I truly know that something isn’t there. Though these days I’ve mostly accepted that I can be pretty sure after 30 years of existing. And if it turns out another wayat some point, then so be it. The label doesn’t define who I am, who I am defines the label

    • Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      6 hours ago

      Not to mention that for some people their labels change with time

      We’re all different and that doesn’t make any of us less valid