• Pup Biru
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    1 day ago

    if someone wears a shirt specifically designed to draw attention to their larger than average breasts, perhaps people should not be surprised when people… yknow… pay attention to said breasts?

    with that being said, the actual content of the comments, pretty gross and degrading… but the fact that the comments are about breasts should not be surprising in the slightest

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      19 hours ago

      I’d like to point out that MOST SHIRTS with text on them have it over where the boobs would be, regardless of what that texts says

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        7 hours ago

        and if someone wears a shirt with text over their boobs, people are gonna glance at their boobs while they read the text

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      1 day ago

      paying attention ✅ good, fine, cutesey, demure, inside thoughts… but not what im talking about :)

      making comments ❌ bad, objectification, gross and mean. this is what im talking about and we seem to agree. keep these thoughts inside unless given permission.