My husband of 17 years is a judge. Recently multiple people have come out publicly with their stories about my husband because all the complaints they have filed with the Council which deals with this have been ignored throughout the years - no investigation opened. My husband has always kept me in the dark about his work - finances, so let’s just say I have my reasons to believe the allegations. The most horrific one I’ve heard is my husband ruled that a 12-year-old consented to having sex with an adult (legal age of consent at the time was 15 in our country), so there was no conviction. The accused in this trial was wealthy. I didn’t know about this until now. Frankly I’m completely disgusted with him.
Yeah, that sucks. Sounds like he’s one of the bad ones. You didn’t know that when you married him, but you do now. You can correct the mistake and leave, because nothing good will come now that his mask has been pulled down.
You’re not the first person people like this have conned, and you won’t be the last, unfortunately. The only thing you can do is move forward with your life, without him.