• ArbiterXero@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    Because it’s likely the first thing you notice and then you look for the harmful secondary traits.

    Like a guy that has a really short fuse with himself. He might just have really high expectations for himself…… buuuuut once you notice that first trait, you keep your eyes out for the secondary ones, where he has a shorter fuse with others.