I (19M) am good friends with a woman named Angela (34F). Angela is friends with my parents, and she used to be my babysitter.

This past July, Angie and I went on a hike together. It was just the two of us. Before the hike, she took her shirt off and left it at her house, so for the entire day, she was wearing nothing but a very low-cut, spaghetti strap sports bra and her running shorts. I got really turned on by her body, so I couldn’t help but hit on her and make sexual comments about her during the hike. She did not seem to mind, but she was sweating very heavily and was acting pretty jumpy around me.

Eventually, about an hour into our hike, we realized that we were lost and that we had no idea where we were. When we realized this, Angie started to cry, and she couldn’t stop crying and sweating for the rest of the hike. Despite this, I continued to make sexual comments about her because I was so horny. After a while, she eventually started screaming and begging somebody to get her out of there. I didn’t lay a hand on her, except near the end of our hike, when I snuck up behind her and grabbed her abs. When I did this, she screamed a second time. By the time we figured out where we were again and got back to the car, Angela was a disheveled, nervous wreck. When we got in the car, she just rested her head on the steering wheel and sobbed to herself.

My question is: did I mess up, or was Angie just being a crybaby?

    • PrimeMover@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
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      3 months ago

      Has it ever occurred to you that I deleted it because you wrote “FaKe aNd GaY” and I had to block you and repost it? Also, how can you still see and comment on my posts even though I block you? Is this simply a shittier version of Reddit?

      EDIT: So this IS just a shittier version of Reddit. Unbelievable.

  • edgemaster72@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    Did you really think you were going to get different answers the third time you posted this? YTA, take the L.

  • minibyte@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
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    3 months ago

    You ignored her needs for your wants and received the appropriate response. Expect a similar reaction every time.

  • HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com
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    3 months ago

    Being lost is scary and its not a good time to hit on someone. Also your babysitter is going to weirded out by attention from you with such and age gap. Also crybaby is a relative thing. Im sure there is someone who under the right circumstances would not cry when you would.