• Billiam@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    I’ll join in and say you’re right. Policing morally “wrong” but legal acts is a very conservative way of doing things. You can point to dozens of activities that conservatives decry as “immoral” or “sinful” yet are legal and nobody cares what they think, but when it’s two adults who get married with a large age gap suddenly everyone wants to be moral guardians. Two consenting adults can make a legal choice, and anything more than that is nobody’s business.

    That said, in this particular case, this dude met his wife when she was still in high school. He absolutely groomed her.

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      7 months ago

      Yeah, I agree. But someone just provided info that the met when she was as under age. This no longer seems like it passes for “leave them alone” territory.

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        7 months ago

        That was the very last thing I said:

        That said, in this particular case, this dude met his wife when she was still in high school. He absolutely groomed her.