Says who?

I bought a pair of ones with no holes for wet or colder weather. Was tired of snow and wet grass soaking my house shoes. I now want another pair with the air holes for summer. I wear socks with them. I’m happily married with a kid. What you think of my shoes is completely irrelevant to my life. People really need to mind their own business. My work banned cargo pants cause the owner had a unreasonable hatred for them. Jeans or slacks only and I hate it. I used to be able to a small screwdriver and a flashlight in my pockets as that’s all my job often needed. Now I carry a backpack around for them, which is dumb.

Oh man I have so many hours in that game. Way underrated. Wow another sacrifice player in the wild. I thought I was alone.

NTA. That’s an incredible sense of entitlement from your husband. My wife used to cook a few meals a week. I would cook the rest or eat out. We scavenge the kitchen for whatever a couple times a week. I would love to go back to that. I’m lucky to get her to cook twice a month these days. So yeah you’re definitely not the asshole.

NTA. However she’s right, at some point they need to meet if the relationship is serious enough. When that happens is totally up to you.