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popping in again just to say i’ve been misgendering myself in my head since i figured myself out almost 2 years ago. It’s So Normal.
sam, 34, ♈🌞♑🌛♐⤴️, sie/hir||they/them, chaotic genderqueer demon and future bigenital androgyne, pansexual, polyam-curious, adhd+autistic, (invisibly) disabled, anarcho-socialist, former apple evangelist turned linux novice and android noob, romantic satanist and daemonolator
popping in again just to say i’ve been misgendering myself in my head since i figured myself out almost 2 years ago. It’s So Normal.
oohhh, that’s vile. reminds me a bit of what my mom did to me and my dad. absolutely stay by your kids.
the irony of blåhaj going down after you posted this. seems we’re back but just barely. i might not be able to post this comment!
i’ve been seeing these vents from the sidelines and i’m sorry your wife suddenly turned like this not even 2 weeks into your journey. i don’t think i can answer these questions for you, but it seems like she might be getting severely influenced by her family? something similar happened to me a long time ago, where a family friend tried twice to get me to break up with someone on his own personal moral grounds (read: some lies he made up). it only succeeded the first time.
is there any reason you don’t want to use kaidan for XMPP instead?