This is always a spectrum from how long it was since the last Debian stable release. So about 2 years max.
Modern release cadences make it crazy anywhere but Debian, but security patches are very timely. If you’re dealing with newer features, driver support or java/npm packages you’re probably also outside the typical defaults, but there’s generally some people working to keep the common ones up to date.
Still not my preferred way to handle updates and in some cases… kind of abusive to the maintainers who constantly haVE to deal with bug reports from “out of date” Debian users. The xscreensaver maintainer has some choice words. But it works, has for years with no sign of slowing.
Both naev and endless sky will scratch the top down space trader itch.
I killed a lot of hours on the official release of endless sky, it was nice to see it unexpectedly in the arch repo.