Literally this. bsky is just chilling while a group of users on lemmy and mastodon are losing their shit about it, without doing anything to make their own platforms actually better for the average normie user. If they don’t want normies there’s nothing to complain about, if they do, they should be taking notes on what bsky is doing.
I haven’t seen shit talking as much as “This is why mastodon isn’t welcoming to most people”. It’s a fine platform for its niche but it’s a niche, and some mastodon users seem a little salty about it / don’t realize they’re a niche.