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Cake day: July 31st, 2023

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  • Marriage is the intention of having a lifelong partnership. Romance is not necessary to love and support a partner, it’s just what’s most common. A fairy wedding sounds delightful.

    Are you saying you and she would be legally married with witnesses and papers or you just want the ceremony and celebration without the paperwork? If the latter, be aware there might be grounds to make you common-law partners without your consent, I’d check those laws out.

    Besides that, if you want her to be your beastie-partner-faux-wife, I’d still do a trial run of living together. Maybe even talk to a relationship counselor for tips to keep this sustainable. Any relationship that close, even platonic ones, take work and have conflict from time to time. You need all the same interpersonal strategies as any other spousal or life partnership arrangement. Living with someone and supporting eachother is still quite an intimate, complex affair, even without the sex and romance.



  • Kurn is a really fun character that Tony Todd did a perfect job with. But it was nice to see he has such great acting chops beyond the scope of Kurns rather one note personality. I cry at the drop of a hat when watching TV, this episode makes me ugly sob every time.



  • The early 2000s was where the Golden Age of Television began with HBO knocking it out of the park with shows like Sopranos, The Wire, Rome, Six Feet Under- Television was being made by film makers and story tellers with high production value previously reserved for movies. This was a gamble and it was paying off in spades. Instead of 2 hours of quality film at a time, we had multiple seasons worth of top notch filmic storytelling. You could really dig deep and develop characters slowly in ways we hadn’t really seen before with this kind of fidelity.

    But like all good things under capitalism, the financial success that accompanied this shift was analyzed by marketers and distilled into formulae. Now, those high production value shows are written by algorithms and directed by focus groups. Film makers and storytellers aren’t the leaders anymore, they are forced to work on projects and within the boundaries the marketing department set up. Hearing my favourite writers lament for the TV culture of 20 years ago is heartbreaking.