• Son_of_dad@lemmy.world
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    5 months ago

    I would imagine it’s no worse than people who marry older. My wife was 20 and I was 25 when we got married, that was 15 years ago

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      5 months ago

      Why’s that? People grow a lot with maturity and knowing what they actually want out of life between 25-40.

      Of course this process never really stops but between those ages you’re going through a lot of transitions and new experiences. You’re still doing a lot growing up during that period.

      It’s not unfair to say that marrying young is a bad idea because you don’t really know who you are yet and there is a lot of opportunity to grow away from your spouse.

      By the time you’re much older a lot of this is out of the way. You’re lot further into your career and in a more stable place.

      Anyway just my experiences but I don’t think marrying young is a great idea. I’m in my late 30s and I feel like a completely different person compared to my early 20s.