• Burninator05@lemmy.world
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      10 months ago

      Unfortunately probably not. The same lack of self awareness that makes them say stupid shit makes them breed like rabbits as well.

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            10 months ago

            Yes i do think parental trauma causes kids to turn out better than them or atleast oppose the ethics and morals of their parents . But it is 50/50 tho there will always be a kid who turned out better than his father/mother and one who really leached of their behavior and became a bigger asshole . It all depends on the kind of trauma which i am not gonna dwell into as it may get NSFW.

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              10 months ago

              I turned out better than my abusive parents but not because they were abusive. I would be a better person without them. And “what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger” is untrue and a horrific message.

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                Not at all i what i was implying ifcourse good parents make better kids just saying a bad parent may not necesaarily make a bad kid . For eg would you say you are better or worse than them ?

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        10 months ago

        which is profoundly ironic considering that this is the exact stuff you hear from these conservatives about immigrants

        they should look themselves in the mirror, except i suspect they’d just freak out at the stranger that showed up in their house…