• Empricorn@feddit.nl
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    1 year ago

    who you want to be

    No offense to anyone, but isn’t this actually anti-trans…?

    By making it aspirational, rather than what you identify as, this just makes it read as “if you want to, you can be another gender, an animal, a god, a tree, whatever!”

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      1 year ago

      Not necessarily. You could also read this as the person in the comic being their preferred gender in every panel, but is just altering their gender expression towards something they’re happier with. Also, not everyone thinks about their gender that way. Some people really have thought about their gender in an aspirational way. I certainly did when I first started trying to figure out my gender.

      The sentence also says “who” instead of “what,” implying that you can be the person you want to be, but not an animal, god, or tree, as those are all not people. I think it’s also fair to assume that the comic’s statement is within reason. If someone interprets this comic to think that they can become a tree, that’s a bad faith interpretation.

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      I just want to say, as a therian I really don’t like how people try and use “identifying as animals” to put down trans people, species dysphoria is indeed real and I even experience it occasionally, I also do experience gender dysphoria so I can say they are absolutely not the same, they have similarities but aren’t the same.