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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/EdinburghGuy33 on 2023-07-30 12:52:58.

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I bought my house from the council with huge discount in my early 20s. House prices went insane, I have a great job, and now I have my own house mortgage free.

During COVID my dad lost his job, then his house (rental), so i let him move into one of my spare rooms Dec-2021.

In January this year he met a new woman. In May I also allowed her to move in. I explained (to my dad) they have 3 months to get themselves sorted then move out.

On Tuesday they’re out doin whatever and Janice messages me “Listen, you need to move out and let us live our life. Are you not embarrassed to be 33 and living with your dad? Start looking into rentals please. We’re giving you 2 weeks to pack up. Dont talk to us about this. Your dad is embarrassed by the situation and would prefer you just act like an adult”

I reply “my dad said he is embarrassed and wants to kick me out?”

She replies “Yes, were fed up not being able to live our life. We cant be alone in the house. Maybe we want to sell the house? Either way, pack your stuff and go”

I reply “my dad said he maybe wants to sell the house??”

She replies “Well, we can’t if you’re there!!! If you dont leave we call the police and have you removed. It’s called tough love. Discussion over”

I reply “OK. Discussion over. Let’s see how this plays out you psychotic b**ch”

She replies “Excuse me??? I’m trying to help you but you’re too f**ing stupid and entitled to see it.  Start packing now. I want you out tonight. Enjoy the cold cheap rental you end up in”

I reply “You probably should have checked who owned the house before you revealed yourself to be a psychotic 2 faced money grabbin c**t. Have fun trying to get back in tonight. I’ve forwarded dad screenshots of your messages”

Long story short - they’re both getting kicked out and about to go into an airbnb til a rental is sorted. My dad said he didnt know she was sending those messages. I told him to leave her but he refuses. He says I’m heartless for forcing them out onto the street. I said they’re both adults and will figure it out.

Am I the asshole for kicking them both out? Important info, my dad was lying to Janice telling her HE owned the house and I was his useless son