I worked out a trade deal for someone to do some soldering for me. I had three devices that needed soldering, and they could keep one for themselves if they soldered the three of them for me. Today I discovered that they didn’t even attempt the soldering, they fucked up all three of the devices, such that the soldering job can no longer be done by anyone, and they want me to compensate them for the time they wasted trying to fix them without soldering. I asked them to do the job, in trade for keeping one, because I am ill and my hands won’t do fine work any more. I definitely don’t want to pay them for not doing the job I asked, which I asked them to do because I couldn’t afford to pay someone to do it. The job is still not done and can never be done now. Am I wrong to be angry with them? Do I have to be grateful and compensate them for their time that they wasted not doing what I asked them to do?

  • givesomefucks@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Because if OP is telling the truth, all three are no worthless.

    So it literally doesn’t matter if he gives him one.

    I can only say this so many ways. I’m sorry I can’t make it any simpler.

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      1 year ago

      It does matter. You’re promoting that doing a shitty job and poorly representing yourself deserves a reward, encouraging further shitty behaviour towards yourself and other people.

      OP shouldn’t give them anything, especially if @[email protected] is right and the boards still have value.

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      1 year ago

      Because the person is demanding monetary compensation, not demanding one of the broken items. But also, he might be aiming to try to keep all 3 of them as a “compromise” as they might not be as broken as he is representing them to be.