Trying to be slightly more open but keep some plausible deniability. Its dumb I know

  • Acamon@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Really the best advice is just be yourself! I think most things that make people seem “a bit bi” are just people wearing whatever / acting however they like.

    I feel like I see a lot of straight people feel like their are “rules” that if they break them the opposite sex won’t find them attractive, or folks might think they’re “weird” or “gay”. And plenty of of gay people feel similar pressure to “fit in” to the constraints of whatever subculture they’re part of.

    When people stop worrying about being one thing, and just do whatever mix of stuff naturally appeals, they normally end up giving off ‘bi vibes’ (at least to me). Obviously, this is a lot of big generalisations!

    , body language, etc that shows that they’re not desperately trying to be stwreotyoiclally straight or gay.