Another player who was at the table during the incident sent me this meme after the problem player in question (they had a history) left the group chat.

Felt like sharing it here because I’m sure more people should keep this kind of thing in mind.

    • SadCack@lemmy.world
      41·
      11 months ago

      A big part of this is that the existing technology ISN’T a magic fix. It has side effects, it works differently than traditional hearing does and this requires long periods of adjustment and learning to bear with it. Literally being able to magic your hearing back to what it naturally should be doesn’t have those significant downsides.

    • Mnemnosyne@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
      53·
      11 months ago

      This developed because it couldn’t be fixed in our world, long enough for these people to develop communities, culture, and literally their own language.

      In a world where it could always have been fixed, such communities and cultures are not likely to have ever developed, since the only people who could not get it fixed would be poor, and the poor are in a bad position to gather together in groups based on their shared experience and thus be able to form their own culture.

      Furthermore, people not wanting to be cured today exist in a world where there already are significant accomodations for their disabilities. It is not likely these people would be able to do this if our society had not made the collective decision to put in the effort needed to accommodate disabilities.

    • mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
      33·
      11 months ago

      Yes, but that is because they’ve either grown up that way or have been deaf for so long that they’re fully integrated into the sub culture. In a fantasy setting, deafness would be taken care of before it could influence people culturally

      • SadCack@lemmy.world
        2·
        11 months ago

        I think that disabilities would still exist, but they would be limited to the poor and lower classes who couldn’t afford the magic treatments. It really depends on how commonplace magic is and varies by the setting.

        • mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
          2·
          11 months ago

          It also would depend on the disability. Deafness might be less covered, but people would be willing to save up or borrow to cure paraplegism because that prevents you from working most jobs

        • mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
          34·
          11 months ago

          Parents finding out their baby was deaf would probably pay to get that healed asap. And people born with hearing and later lose it are probably going to want that fixed.

          Also, your “argument” of gasp, authoritarianism!!!1! is nothing but a strawman and makes you look ridiculous

          • JackbyDev@programming.devEnglish
            23·
            11 months ago

            You’re moving the goal posts. Originally you said,

            In a fantasy setting, deafness would be taken care of before it could influence people culturally

            Now you’re saying they probably would while still taking a tone of me being wrong. You can’t agree with me that deaf people would exist while still acting like I’m wrong.

            Also, what you described earlier is akin to eugenics. Forcefully fixing alleged disabilities without consent is absolutely authoritarian.

            • mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
              22·
              11 months ago

              Forcefully fixing alleged disabilities without consent is absolutely authoritarian.

              So a parent is wrong for wanting to fix their child’s disabilities? You’re actually insane if you believe that, and I hope you never have children

              • JackbyDev@programming.devEnglish
                11·
                11 months ago

                That is not what you said. You’re still moving the goal posts. You said something extreme and are stepping your position back when confronted with the reality of it.