Hey everyone,
I [28F] need some advice on handling anxiety when job hunting.

Almost a week ago I finished school and I’m once again without work. I’ve been job hunting about 40-50% of my adult life and it has taken a huge toll on my mental health to the point where I’m barely able to apply for jobs anymore. I have gotten a few warnings over the years due to not applying to enough jobs. ( I live in Sweden btw )

I have tried taking breaks.
I have tried waiting for the anxiety to pass.
I have asked so many for advice but it’s like they all give the same default answer. If their advice where enough, I would be a pro at job hunting.

I did get an autism diagnosis a few years back and I do feel better about myself, more confident and understanding of how I work so I think this time around will be different, but it’s like the old anxiety still hangs around and I don’t know how to get rid of it.

Please if you have any advice, I’d love to hear it.

  • JigglySackles@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    You are absolutely not alone. I’m applying to Sr. and lead positions at this point in my career, and I’ve been nervous every single time I’ve interviewed anywhere. I don’t think it’s about to stop either because my most current job was my most nerve wracking. You aren’t alone, and you’ll be OK. 🙂

    It may also help to remind yourself that you want the kind of job that wants you back. That will become clear later on in your career, but finding a job that wants you and not just a warmish body makes a huge difference in how you feel after you start the job.

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      1 year ago

      I think I know that feeling, when a job wants me. I’ve never experienced it before. The boss acted different than the others, it felt like he was really rummageing through his brain to find a way while the others just shruged it off.

      I had a trainee period at a company nerby (through school). They work mostly backend but want to expand to frontend development but haven’t managed to get a job deal with another yet.