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    When I was young, I was poor. But after decades of hard work, I’m not young anymore

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    The absence of affordable housing is a failure of the state. working your whole life to pay for housing is the rigging of the system.

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    One day my boss rolled up in a fancy new car, I had grown up in a family that did better than middle class and still I had never seen such luxury. I was reminded of how I was promised the world, and given scraps, never to enjoy the same level of financial freedom as my grandparents.

    But then my boss put his hand on my shoulder, he saw the pain in my eyes, and he reassured me

    “Listen, if you work hard, apply yourself, put the company’s needs before your own wants…”

    My heart sang, could this be the secret to my salvation? “I’ll finally get that raise”

    My boss laughed. “No, I can get a nicer car by the next fiscal year.”

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    Wow, and that’s a really tiny house too. Couldn’t even get a whole hand through the front door.

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    Home ownership in the US has hovered between low 60% and high 60% for around 6 decades now, but sure, let’s pretend that it ain’t possible no more because some people only want to post doom-and-gloom bullshit because they have ulterior motives.

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      What are the statistics for those under 35 though? If I had to guess, the 65+ crowd is propping up these numbers.

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        The people who are 65 now, would have been 35 in the mid 90s. Home ownership in the mid-90s is within a few percentage points of what it is now.

        And when it comes to home ownership of people around 25 years old, there are more of them now, than young people 20 years ago.

        “Almost 30% of those young adults owned their homes in 2022, more their Gen X parents achieved when they were 25”

        https://www.investopedia.com/gen-z-homebuyers-7483718

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          The fascists don’t want facts though they just want to bitch about the state and get free things.

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      A similar proportion of people are buying houses, but they’re paying far more relative to their income than used to be the case. People are stretching their budget more.

      People are also buying later than used to be the case. “Starter homes” aren’t a thing anymore. People are buying in their mid-career after saving a ton of money up. https://www.urban.org/urban-wire/real-homeownership-gap-between-todays-young-adults-and-past-generations-much-larger-you

      Just referencing the homeownership rate alone ignores the important context.

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        Interestingly your link seems to blame it mostly on declining marriage rates? It says near the end that the majority of the decline in individual homeownership rate since 1990 can be accounted for by assuming the marriage rate stayed constant, rather than the noted decline in marriages we’ve seen since then. So I’m not convinced things actually were better in the 90s; couples were just getting married younger and more often, and the pooled resources allowed more of them to buy homes.

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          Is that not the definition of better lol

          But you can just look at the ballooning cost of homes, far outpacing wage growth, to see it’s mathematically inevitable that it’s worse.

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      Ignoring everything else wrong with your comment, have you considered the original tweeter might not have been American?

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        What do you mean not American? There’s only America, what else exists in the world?

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        Considering 95.8% of the humain population lives outside the USA… It’s easy for Americans to forget they’re actually a minority in the world because math is hard!

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        Clearly you ignored the fact that I specifically stated these were US numbers on purpose because while the photo looks like the UK, they didn’t call out where they were talking about.

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      The problem I see with that graph is that it tells us that 63%-69% of Americans are incentivized to make the problem worse. Homes are, by far, the biggest asset of those people. Their retirement and long term wealth is highly dependent on appreciating housing prices.

      We regularly observe the effects of this in the form of all kinds of NIMBY laws. Unless you’re prepared to build a cabin in the middle of the wilderness, almost all the desirable land already has a bunch of people living there. Those people tend to be very resistant to any additional housing that has any chance of decreasing their home value. We also see it in the form of mortgage tax deductions. The more money you borrow for your house, the more the government pitches in. We’re encouraged to leverage our investment in housing which further drives up the need for housing to be a good investment. All of this effectively turns into a negative marginal tax rate (ie it’s a wealth transfer from poor people to rich people).

      We, as a society, need to decide if we want housing to be a right or an investment. It can’t be both.

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        We, as a society, need to decide if we want housing to be a right or an investment. It can’t be both.

        We already decided. We decided it’s an investment, fuck human rights.

        Or did you not notice all the homelessness?

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          Unfortunately it’s far more complicated than that.

          Many of those people who own homes aren’t rich themselves. If you look at the income distribution in the US you’ll see that (even if we make the assumption that only the richer people own homes) homeowners could be earning as little as $50k, for their entire household. Only about 15% make over $200k. For the rest, if their homes don’t do well as an investment, they’re absolutely screwed as they get older.

          I do notice homeless people but it’s not a good way to estimate homelessness rates. Depending on where you are, that’s likely to wildly over- or under- estimating homelessness. Some cities effectively have policies of moving homeless people to less visible spots, either through sheltering or though relocation. That’s part of why people think SF has a rampant homelessness problem even though NYC actually has a hire homelessness rate. Homeless people also tend to congregate in certain areas for a variety of reasons (winter weather is a big one). Homeless rates in the US have stayed pretty steady over the last few years. https://www.huduser.gov/portal/sites/default/files/pdf/2022-ahar-part-1.pdf Globally the US is on par with many countries that typically go through a lot of pains to protect citizens rights; eg Germany, Austria Denmark, the Netherlands.

          I suspect that the bigger effect is under housing. That is, people staying in homes that are no longer suitable for them.

          The upside is that there’s a very simple policy that is highly likely to have an enormous impact on all variations of housing shortage, build more houses. Credits and incentives only shuffle around the existing stock. Housing vacancy rates are near historic lows. Fix that and house prices will come down. A lot of people don’t like that plan because it seems to capitalist. But, as I said at the beginning of all this, we would then need to find a way to help all the people who’s retirement plan we just nuked. There are fairly straightforward ways to do that too. A lot of people will hate those plans because they sound too communist. My best guess is neither will happen and we’ll keep plodding along with the suboptimal status quo.

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      Winning a piece of lead in their stomach or a piece of steel through their necks?

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        I’ve never heard of anyone who loves paying rent. They just don’t think they can do anything about it when it gets raised.

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          For some people rent is the smarter option. If your moving around every two years anyway for work you’d lose a lot of time and money on fees and taxes buying and selling. Home ownership should for sure be more accessible though.

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              i agree, but unfair market monopolies and lobbyism is what caused the housong crisis in the first place and those will continue to exist in other economies as well if we don’t legislate against them. the free market gives people the power to fuck over others. people have forgotten to include the philosophical counterpart to “as long as it doesn’t infringe upon the rights of others” in their capitalism because they were too busy cooming over their agency

              the US and humanity as a whole is too tribeminded to instinctively act cooperatively across communities, and especially borders, which is why we need to systematically make it impossible for anyone to be left in the dirt. there is no human we do not have the resources to give a happy and fulfilling life, so anyone asking for more at the cost of that should be fucking beheaded, if you’re serious about minimizing human suffering.

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            Even if you plan on staying put, sometimes the math just doesn’t work out. Renting is, for me, much cheaper than buying, even accounting for equity. Depends on the housing market in your area.

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          That’s one of the main reasons why I don’t understand my younger friends’ insistence on starting with a single family house! I’m very handy, I built an extension to my mother’s house, redid most of her plumbing, I know my way around a house electricity and so on… My first property was a condo so I wouldn’t have to take care of most of that bullshit and could just enjoy having my own place and setting most of my housing budget “aside” instead of giving it all to a landlord or paying for upkeep that wouldn’t increase my property’s value.

          But when I tell my friends that complain about not being able to afford a house that they should look into buying a condo as their first property instead? Yuck! That’s out of the question! Paying condo fees? Are you crazy?

          As if a house didn’t come with the responsibility to put the equivalent to condo fees aside, just in case!

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            I’m guessing it’s mostly about building equity. The average net worth of a home owner is $225k, while the average net worth of a renter is $6k. You can usually get a lot of the money you pay for your mortgage back if you really need to (and likely much more long-term, if the housing market isn’t down). And you can do whatever you want with a house you own (change flooring, remodel, make garden beds, install solar panels, build a workshop, etc).

            Renting makes sense if you plan on moving again within the next 5 years, or if you are very high income, can build significant equity while also paying rent, and just want everything taken care for you.

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              That’s why I’m saying starting with a condo makes a whole lot of sense, it’s the compromise between the two, but it seems less and less people want to start small to be able to afford something bigger later… My friends are just staying at their parents’ or in their authentic instead, even if they have more than enough money to afford a condo, but not enough for a house 🤷

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                Having owned a condo - I can’t honestly recommend them.

                You’re beholden to an HOA in every way that can charge whatever they want.

                I was paying $600/month for a green pool, a broken grill, and an ‘unassigned’ parking spot.

                My place flooded 7 times in 6 years due to ‘unforeseen circumstances’ with no recourse because there is no way of knowing which of the 15 units above me leaked, or if it was a central pipe.

                It sucked dick

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                  You realise the HOA is… the owners…

                  And I call bullshit on the no recourse, insurance companies would never have let it fly because the owner responsible is the one who’s insurance would have had to pay for the damage.

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              If you don’t have the means to buy a house now but have the means to buy another type of property that will allow you to buy a house at a later date, why would you continue living in an apartment where you’re already living next to a bunch of people instead of just becoming an owner of something equivalent that you can sell at a later date to get most (if not all) of your money back?

              Nothing in my message is about my friends not being worthy of ownership, it’s about them wanting to go from nothing to everything in one step and not being willing to compromise in the meantime since they can’t afford to make the leap.

              Do people expect to start their first job out of school as a manager or they expect to have to go up the ladder and learn their trade first? Why wouldn’t they expect that their first property won’t be their dream house?

              Otherwise people can live somewhere far enough that they can buy their dream house for cheap as a first purchase and they deal with the other compromise, which is that professional opportunities are scarce and services are far.

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          Remind me when this guy’s 79 can’t work anymore and can’t afford rent on the shitty retirement they have and let’s see if they wish they had a fully paid off house by then 😂

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              As someone who bought an outdated house in 2013, I agree with you, in part.

              The amount of money that my husband and I have sunk into this house between having the foundation leveled, having the entire house re-plumbed, updating the flooring, updating the siding, updating the windows, having the gutters re-done, new HVAC…among the various other things that my husband and I have done ourselves (some of the flooring, repainting, updating kitchen sink+hardware, updating both bathrooms, new Hot Water Heater etc), we’ve sunk ~$85K over the past decade. Fortunately all those hits didn’t come all at once. Right now we’re in the process of paying off financing for the siding, the flooring we had professionally done, and the plumbing. Only 2 of those things were planned and budgeted for. The plumbing issue occurred the same month we had the siding and flooring done 😮‍💨.

              That being said, on the other hand, I do see the value of being a property owner. When I look at the appreciation on the property and know that I have that money if shit ever goes super sideways for me, I’ll be able to survive long enough to figure shit out, its comforting. Seeing my mortgage go down and knowing that if I ever need to sell, I’ll get a large lump sum, is also comforting. Or, if I have to live in this house forever for some reason, at least it won’t be mortgaged anymore, so that will be a relief in my old age.

              Then again, you’re right about the property taxes too. I’m paying about $460 a month in property taxes, but I’m only 10 years into my mortgage. Who knows how much I’ll be paying a month in 20 years as housing appreciates and taxes go up? It’s not inconceivable that it would get to $1K a month or more. That’s essentially a rent anyhow. Plus I’m still on the hook for all the stuff that will need updating 20 years from now.

              I agree that people think that home ownership is some easy ticket to wealth without taking into account how expensive maintenance is. I also agree it can be valuable just by virtue of security (your principle and interest remains stagnant, and you never have to worry about your lease not being renewed.)

              And before people are like “You just spent so much because you bought a lemon house. Being a home owner isn’t that expensive when it comes to house maintenance.”

              No. My house was never unlivable, and all my maintenance issues occurred at different times over the course of my decade of home ownership. My house was built in 1995. The HVAC went out in 2017. It was 22 years old. That was ~$6K. The foundation needed leveling and the gutters needed replacing in 2021, that was another $12K between the two. Getting all the windows updated to a thicker more efficient glass with better sealing occurred in 2022, 5 windows and a back door was $20K. Started noticing the rear siding looking janky in 2022, and didn’t want to defer maintenance so had that replaced, that was $20K. The plumbing went out in 2022, and it was a leak under the foundation. They offered to patch the plumbing but would only warranty the work for 3 years, or they could replumb the house and warranty for 30 years. That was again, just under $20K.

              The house is nearly 30 years old. You can’t defer maintenance like foundation leveling and siding if you want your house standing when your mortgage is paid off.

              All of this was a suuuuuuuuper long winded way to just say: Yes I’m a home owner. I plan on selling the moment I’m allowed to escape this state, and no I never plan on owning ever again. I actively want the flexibility of renting and being able to up and move the moment my lease is over if I don’t like the place. And I never want to worry about major upkeep ever again.

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            Not everyone has shitty retirement funds and if you make the choice to rent you need to set money aside as if you were paying for maintenance on a house with a mortgage equivalent to your rent to compensate not being able to sell later on, in many cases you’ll end up with more money in your pockets too.

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          I hate renting with a passion and wish I could buy a home of my own, but that is the one silver lining. I’ve gotten home after a 14 hour shift and realized that something was wrong with the hot water heater. Put in a ticket with maintenance, gone to bed, and at 9 am the next morning they’re knocking on my door to fix it. I don’t have to deal with the mental load of even thinking about who to call let alone the financial headache of paying for it. I was also extremely lucky that in that case I lived in a place with amazing maintenance people.

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        I don’t feel secure that my state won’t pass horribly restrictive laws driving me to leave in the next 7 years which makes the financial decision to buy not necessarily worth it