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It's surreal to have innate feelings and thought patterns that are completely intuitive to you, but it turns out that 99% of people think differently.

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It's surreal to have innate feelings and thought patterns that are completely intuitive to you, but it turns out that 99% of people think differently.

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Casual Conversation @lemm.eeEnglish · 21 hours ago

I always assume that my brain is structured in a way that at least 5% of people could relate to my general thought processes, but it turns out that some of my experiences of being a human are really just a “me” thing. I’ve often told myself that I’m just like everyone else, and that all of my personality traits are explainable by a mishmash of stereotypes and systemic influences. But I guess there’s more to it than that, and I’ve been selling myself a bit short.

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I’ve grown into this way of thinking and feeling. I used to see attractiveness in aesthetics with emotional connection as an after thought.

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