• southsamurai@sh.itjust.works
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    1 day ago

    Nah, no judgement at all!

    I think part of that gap is whether or not the retirement is a choice, and how much you can engage in life.

    See, for you, you actually still have a “job”. You have a shape to your life, a purpose, a structure.

    As people get older, there’s less of that. And, sometimes less ability to engage in the fun stuff.

    It’s all situational, really.

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      That’s true. I think the best thing anyone can do for themselves is mitigate as much of that as you can. Obviously you can be dealt a shit hand and get a physical or mental impairment as you get older that’s out of your control. But if you can stay as mentally and physically healthy as possible you can definitely raise your chances of being one of those 70 year old tanks you see destroying the rock climbing walls and stuff.

      And unless you get severe parkinsons or something I still think there are many fulfilling things you can do at home.

      But at the end of the day it’s about working with what you have. I understand it can be a huge adjustment when someone that has done the same thing for 40 years is forced into retirement and their world is turned upside down. I know it’s not all simple. But I’ve seen a streamer that can only move their head playing COD with a mouth controller. I think just about everyone can find something if they try.

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        Heck yeah! I got taken out of work by physical stuff, and finding ways to make a fulfilling life is what kept me going for a long time.